Nexus Khan's Blog

Activate Your Facebook Timeline Now!

2011-12-31T15:11:00.000+08:00

The social media world is abuzz with the release of the Facebook Timeline to the masses. Perhaps you are also wondering how could you get the timeline instead of awaiting the official release to your profile. Here's the guide for you to have it up and running for you...

Step 1: Go to Introducing Timeline page and click Get Timeline at bottom of the page.

Note: If you click that link once, it might not reappear again. So click the link when you are ready to get Facebook Timeline.Step 2: You are then taken to your preview Timeline page.

Step 3: At the top right there will be options appearing to Take a Tour or Publish your Timeline.

Step 4: Clicking on Public will make your Timeline live right now. Its a good idea to take a Timeline Tour.

Note: 7 Day Timeline Preview

Here are a few facts before you decide to publish your timeline and make it public and live on the internet to your friends.

When you upgrade to timeline, you have only 7 days to review it
Only you can see your timeline during your 7-day preview.You can publish your timeline anytime during those 7 days.
If you don’t publish timeline in 7 days, it will go live automatically after seven days.Your new timeline will replace your profile, but all your stories and photos will still be there.

Construction Completed

2011-11-29T17:31:00.001+08:00

Finally after grueling 3 hours, the Micke was completed. Now, the only missing bit is either an iMac or a MacBook Pro.

If there is any apple guru out there, can please advise me if either device could support two-users login???

Cos I wouldn't want my music to sync with wifey's and that would mean a massive clean up of an epic proportion!!!

Vision Board

2011-11-28T12:21:00.001+08:00

All of us have dreams, some are big, some are small. Most importantly, what are the steps that we take in order to achieve those dreams. A constant visualisation of the dream would help in making those a reality.

As I was thinking on the same, my best bet was to have my visualisation on an online portal, simply because anything on the hard paper book would just end up in another pile and go missing, just like the earlier notebook I had, thus risking the dream to be abandoned.

Taking the content from the book that I had, and adding some new visions, my most recent vision board can be found at http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150392116733737.358285.688423736&type=1&l=426a388908

Now, looking back, am glad that most are achieved prior to target date, but those were the easily attainable dreams, let’s see if I can keep the same pattern with the bigger dreams. Godspeed to us (since every dream of mine has Afriza in it too!)

Blogger Test

2011-11-25T18:44:00.001+08:00

Was just informed that Blogger has released an official iPhone app. Downloaded it and giving it a go, perhaps this would get me into writing my blog once again...

Honestly, with the new job, it would be apt to start off a new blog that would focus on communications and how it impacts the message to the target audience. Definitely worth the time spent as it would give me the opportunity to sharpen my knowledge and up my skills further!

In A Crowd, She Emerges

2011-04-01T00:41:00.001+08:00

Angel's Birthday

2011-04-01T00:36:00.000+08:00

A shot snapped during my angel's birthday... 

From her ever-loving 

Memories Rekindled

2011-04-01T00:13:00.000+08:00

It's exactly 6 months to our marriage and here I am tonight thinking that it still feels like yesterday when we got married.

I believe it's only natural for one to feel that way when every day seems like you are falling in love with that person all over again.

As I always said, all my life I wished for a life partner that I thank God for letting me see her as she fall asleep and awakening thanking God for giving me another day to spend with her, I do indeed and I want my angel to know that I love her more than anything else in life, myself included.

Thank you baby for walking down the aisle with me and for being the person walking beside me for the rest of my life. You're the reason for the joy in my heart and soul.

Long Absence

2011-04-01T00:02:00.000+08:00

And my reason??? I have no specific reason except that work has been super hectic and what little time I have left daily is spent with the love of my life and my angel wifey. Seriously, she wakes up much earlier than me and heads to office early, comes back early just to a world where she cooks and do all the house chores.

Sometimes I wonder where she gets her strength to continue carrying out the role of a wife and the more I think of it, my respect, admiration and appreciation grows for everything she does. Thank you honey for everything that you do, for selflessly caring for me and ensuring that I have a great meal on the table and nicely pressed attire to office.

If I were to do the same, even just for one day, I would epicly fail where you make it seem so simple. I love you, for all that you do for me baby and I'm truly glad that I found you in my life, a life where everything was astray and you put the order to it...

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A child's reflection

2010-09-21T12:30:00.000+08:00

"Ok now let's write B" she said as she laid on the carpet with Alisha... "Aunty Afriza, see this" Alisha said as her tiny hands held the pencil and wrote B... "Clever la Alisha! Now let's write C, see here Aunty write...

They went on to complete the full alphabet book while I, sat in amazement looking at my fiancé attending to Alisha...

A man spends his lifetime looking for a perfect lady that not only could love and care for him, but importantly, the one who could be the mother to his child...

It's a natural order of things, even in animal kingdom, the order is the same; to find the best partner with maternal instincts...

But put it all aside, for me, personally... Having a life partner that would want to have a family of her own was a paramount factor... That explains why years ago, I have thought about Mikail Khan...

It was a great moment as I saw her with Alisha and there was a sense of deep satisfaction within me, to know that I have found my life partner who shares the same passion as I do...

I'm truly glad to God for answering my prayers and for giving me this much joy, 11 days to go for our marriage and day by day, I make discoveries that makes me feel truly fortunate and on top of the world...

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12 days to blissful life ahead...

2010-09-20T12:52:00.000+08:00

Last night, we attended the wedding reception of a very close friend of mine, Deepa and it was truly unique experiencing a Sikh wedding reception, grand and definitely thrilling with music that makes one move their shoulders, resistance is futile indeed when it comes to dhol and it's beat!!!

My lady in arms, was my fiance, looking ever gorgeous in her attire and truly she never fails to mesmerize me with her appearance. Truly an enchanting beauty she is...

I realised how fortunate and lucky I am to have won her heart when I met Deepa's mum and she asked me, "where's your fiance?" And when I pointed to Afriza who was standing 12 metres away, she exclaimed, "she's so beautiful?" And I immediately smiled unknowingly...

Then came about when I stumbled upon Greg who creates marvels with his video lens... A reknowned videographer whom I was getting acquainted and spoke to him of engaging him for our nikah and wedding ceremony...

He then asked, "who's your fiance?" And I pointed out towards her who was seated at the table... Greg's response was truly one of a kind, "dude, how'd you land her? She's gorgeous man!!! She doesn't even look Pakistani to me and seriously, how'd you got her???" Before I could even answer, he added, "was it arranged by the family???"...

Obviously, he thought that there's no way on earth that a girl so beautiful, gorgeous and captivating could have decided to be with me unless it was with the typical melodramatic bollywood drama!

Amazingly, it did not involve any bollywood scenes, but a guy did indeed found an everlasting love of an angel... Who showered him with so much love and care that he feels incomplete whenever his eyes does not have the sight of her... Who goes to bed every night counting days to our marriage and wakes up to a bew day wishing time could pass by faster...

It's 12 days and counting, to a moment that I was wishing for all my life, to the days of love, cherishing and treasuring, for a lifetime...

Baby, if you are reading this, I just want you to know that having you in my life is the most amazing feeling, when I point out towards you, there's a sense of pride and happiness to know that I'm pointing towards you as my future wife... Loving you is not something I choose, but a devotion of mine to someone I admired for a long time and now that I have her, to shower her with so much love, care and joy...

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2010-09-18T02:37:00.000+08:00

Some might say
That he has changed
But no!
This is the hypocrite in disguise...

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Love of An Angel

2010-06-16T12:29:00.001+08:00

If the moon could sing praises,

He would have told you about an angel,

That descended from the heavens,

To reside among the mortals.

They asked me a lover in lunacy,

What brought me to a state I am,

Astonished, awed and marvelled,

I say there’s a turmoil in my heart

The heart of mine beats,

Beats furiously at the sight of this angel,

So fast that it felt like it could stop beating,

From each beat it becomes harder to breathe

There she stands before me,

And I kneel before the angel,

Seeking a piece of love so heavenly,

Wishing for a love that is everlasting

She looked into my eyes,

Piercing thru the soul that is lonely,

Her lovely tresses flowing like the wave of sea,

Her lips like the blossoming flower of Eden

I placed a ring within her fingers for love is destiny,

She gave up immortality for a lifetime with me,

Let life witness that an everlasting love exists,

When an immortal angel accepted the love of a mortal…

Dedicated to Afriza Afzal… the angel who accepted the love of mine, who brought unlimited happiness to my parents and family… For whom, I am glad that I didn’t belong to anyone else, as there could be none who could love me the way she do…

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Sacrifices of a Woman…

2010-04-30T12:43:00.001+08:00

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well:

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy with studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements…

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name; One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen…

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you…

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities…

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise; One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her…

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it… But not many guys understand this...

Please appreciate "HER"…

Respect Her…

Cherish every moment..

P/S: Sometimes she needs nothing from you but just a simple acknowledgement for all the things she does… today, just drop by a florist and pick the finest rose for her… simply because… she deserves it…

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The Median…

2010-04-16T01:35:00.001+08:00

Let’s not get confused with Meridian haha… just thought of glamourising the deadline that befalls me… this June was the deadline my dad has given…

Imagine this: an epic bollywood flick where the dad says “if by the mid of this year you have not found the girl that you would wanna marry, you will have to agree to at least visit (more like spy) these selections of mine”…

In equally epic manner, the son accepts the bet not knowing that he would not even realise time passing by and he’ll be blogging about what is to come in a blink of an eye!!!

So yeah, looks like I gotta adhere, I’m a man of my word, not that I’d be forced to marry any of these girls, but at least I gotta honour by ‘considering’…

All this cause it’s the community that we’re in, pretty small and closed knit, laced with traditions (rules) and it’s not easy to catch sight of the like-species in routine encounters.

Heck, what have I gotta lose, I gave my best shot, messed up pretty well in the process, with much regrets and also gladful feelings for God’s presence as my saviour up to today.

Maybe I shouldn’t be judgemental and just give it a go, who knows, like a unique rare gem, like a hidden treasure, like in my poems, I might stumble upon my Orion!!!

No matter what it is, I am going to be positive and hope for the best, my 3 brothers are happily married, living the life that I’ve been wishing too. Sometimes, you got to have faith, see the signals and know that He works the best for you in ways that you look back and say, ‘now it figures why it never worked with all of em before, because she was made for me…”

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Awaiting Results...

2010-04-13T12:12:00.001+08:00

Here I am on the hospital bed, after a gruelling night that never seemed to pass.

Visited the doctor yesterday and his earlier diagnostic, he said nothing to worry but since it's a growth near the glands, he suggested a thorough check...

Since then up to now, I have been having so many weird thoughts, what if it's something chronic, what if my life is about to come to an end?

I have so many things yet to be accomplished, I'm yet to find my Orion... And there is no Mikail out there to carry the legacy of mine!!! Would my existence be some sort of disappearance without a trace???

It was a sleepless night, so many thoughts and it definitely made me realise the things that would matter most...

I am praying hard for a positive result... And I know, if it is all fine, then I'm definitely blessed with a second chance to life, which I'm not going to take for granted... A decade has passed and I'd ensure the next decade to be something that anyone would be proud!!!

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Are My Testicles Black???

2010-03-08T15:50:00.001+08:00

A male patient is lying in bed in the hospital with an oxygen mask over his mouth and nose and is still heavily sedated from a 4 hour operation…

A young nurse appears in his room to sponge his hands and feet.

"Nurse," he mumbles from behind his mask, "are my testicles black?"

Embarrassed, the young nurse replies,"I don't know, I'm only here to wash your hands and feet."

He struggles again to ask,"Nurse, are my testicles black?"

Finally, she pulls back the covers, raises his gown, holds his penis in one hand and his testicles in the other hand, takes a close look, and says," There's nothing wrong with them!"

The man removes his oxygen mask and says very slowly…

"That was very nice but listen very, very closely…

Are-my-test-results-back?"

What is Love according to Socrates...

2010-03-04T18:17:00.001+08:00

‎Plato asked Socrates what is love...

Socrates: Go into the field and get me the most special leaf...

Plato returned with no leaf at hand said: I found the most beautiful leaf in the field but I didn't pick it up for I might find a better one, but when I returned to the place, it was gone...

Socrates: We always look for the best in life. When we finally see it, we take it for granted and expecting a better one...

NOT KNOWING IT WAS THE BEST AND LAST!!!

So, did you ever encounter such??? Which gives me an idea of my next post... Stay tuned...

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Listen… Pen Pen of Starbucks…

2009-12-24T17:28:00.001+08:00

Starbucks Malaysia is currently holding a twitter contest featuring the Penguin Tumblr which is truly one of the rarest items ever!!! Like my mug that has been bought 9 yrs ago for Christmas, I would want this tumblr to be part of it…

But as all great lovers know, that love and courtship that lasts for years doesn’t just happen like that, a gentleman has to be suave, charming, evoking the emotions that are unexplainable, and how best can one show that than poetry???

So Pen Pen (am visualising you as female Penguin ya, just cos I know how creative can some folks be in deciphering poetry hahaha)… this is for you, let’s walk the path of life together… from the North Pole to The Prince of Wales Island, where we’ll look at sunrise by the beach…

Listen to me my sweetheart

Listen to me my darling

From the silence of the night

Beats of my heart calls for you

The shadows of moments

Has been lifted beyond my soul

Words of yours

Sings a tune in my ears

The soft and smooth touch of your hair

Casts a moment of a heartbeat

My eyes are captives

Of gazes from your eyes

From the lips of mine

I will steal your sadness away

A prayer comes from those lips

The sighs of admiration for The Creator…

Many would say that they love you

That they want you

But they stop at one try to @StarbucksMY

I, keep giving them everything I’ve got

Because love and passion knows no boundaries

Men would shed blood to fight for what he wants

Need because I need you, that you already know

Because I cant imagine being without you

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The Absence of Nexus

2009-11-23T11:52:00.001+08:00

Hei guys,

Just last night a sudden thought hit me that I've not written for a long long time on this blog...

Well, today just popped by to perhaps remind my existence since ur RSS could not have reflected my blog for sometime...

Truth be told, it's been way hectic and many things are planned for an aggressive year ahead, both on work and personal basis...

Nevertheless, am glad to have many of you on Twitter and definitely it's a relief to know that somehow, someway we do bump into each other,,, so here's to a remarkable week ahead to you...

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Lies and Untold Truth

2009-10-29T16:55:00.001+08:00

In life, we are often faced with debacles that would shred every bit of faith we put on others...

A wife could flip thru a husband's mobile phone and discover the sms sent by his mistress... A husband could return home to surprise his wife and be instead, given a surprise of seeing his wife on bed with another man...

This are two out of thousand scenarios one could face, evidently there are many more...

But do we blame others for their action or ourselves for ignoring the tell-tale signs from the beginning???

Come to think of it, there's no one else to blame but yourself. If you decided to overlook the various lies told earlier and not make your stand, you shouldn't be blaming now if it's something more severe. It was a trend that you 'blessingly' allowed and set the precedence.

No matter what it is, make sure you make it clear without holding it back thinking it will be fine, it will be not and it's up to you to face the consequences...

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Bimbos… Appal Me!!!

2009-10-22T22:15:00.001+08:00

So we unfold another day of mysterioum… the ever so unlucky day of mine where I had to deal with another bimbo… Seriously, why are they so many of you existing on earth??? Pleaseee enlighten me!!!

It takes every ounce of my energy to puke at their attempts and makes me wanna vomit blood, at times I feel sorry, but I give priority to myself so the feeling practically diminishes pretty fast…

So there I was out for dinner with a glorified bimbo, not that I had a choice but that’s for another reason altogether… Let’s just say it was unavoidable…

The first few minutes rolls up just fine, but a bimbo, being naturally her, truly believes that every man on earth could be brought to agreement by flashing her boobies or swaying her ass like a pendulum on a grandpa’s clock… it’s eminent no matter how hard they try, this inner slutty fiesta would reveal itself in matters of minutes, and that’s what happened!!!

So as if written in the bimbo manual, she uses the excuse of it being a warm night in a cosy restaurant to take off her jacket, revealing them jooblies and yeah, though the ass being totally smackable, the brain was somehow missing just like bits of clothes on her body!!!

See, there are men who goes goo goo ga ga on these ‘things’, but after dealing with ample (no pun intended) of them, a man would grow up and know that it’s all just a bloody show… You know somehow that the boobies are looking so super duper pumped up fine cos of a genius invention known as push-up bra…

Oh and bimbo, if you are chinese, no way on earth you could have lashes so magical naturally, and to those with a lighter shade of black, the foundation/compact you have plastered on your face actual falls like a cement, oh and hei, how come your neck and your face differs in color???

And just like your created fantasy, this too will fade as you face the future… Younger, hotter and sultrier bimbos are going to emerge, wiping you off from every avenue that you have getting equally loser men’s bowing to you… You know, in simple terms, the way you actually look when you wake up in the morning!!!

So be prepared for the day that when you snap the bra and have the jooblies doing the bungee all the way to your knees and that paraded ass looks more like a back of a tanker or when 300ml serum actually seems to work like splash of water… Oh and those guys who actually drool at you now and suddenly avoids you… hei, this is the trait of the losers, what did you expect??? Devotion??? Loyalty??? Oh wait, you’re a bimbo… tsk tsk tsk…

So don’t get all pissy and bitchy with me simply because your slutty methods of getting things done to your fancy doesn’t work with me… I have elevated myself way above and beyond, like I said, I rather be shopping in Harrod’s than Pasar Malam, I rather be dealing with exclusivity and avant-garde than having something that everyone have for a bargained price… Cheapness is out, privilege is in…

Everyone that knows me, knows that I respect women who are women and not hoes, women with substance gets equal and mutual respect from me, and also admiration for the way they actually carry themselves…

They are the fine ladies that makes a connoisseur of fine beauty like me kneel before them and say that ‘you’re a masterpiece indeed’. Someone who actually communicates intelligently and looks regal with her natural beauty… whose conversations doesn’t revolve around her new dress or her nails chipping becomes a national tragedy…

That being said, the mere reason of this post is me being appalled at the behaviour of a bimbo who couldn’t believe her ears when I told her no, and like every other bimbo known to mankind, behaved in a typical bitchy manner that just proved her cheapness during dinner…

And for someone that thinks I could be categorised in the circle of men who’s dying to be gaining this sort of approval, I don’t think she deserves the respect that I could bestow on a lady, I paid the bill and walked off. Thank you very much but if cheapness is what I would’ve settled with, I won’t be where I am today, and I, intend to reach higher and soar with the eagles, so you chickens (again, no pun intended) can hang around, the way you guys are meant to be and belong…

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Porsche- The New Frontier

2009-10-21T22:16:00.001+08:00

So here I’m after day 5 at Porsche… Finally I was able to officially announce after receiving the docket containing my Letter of Offer…

Pretty interesting so far, loving the revs of these masculine machines in the morning and getting to know terminologies in regards to vehicles. What interests me the most is the sheer things that we as car users don’t realise, yet are so well thought off even during conception of a design!!!

Overloaded with information and I actually finished reading important things on the Panamera!!! Yes, the immaculate 4-Door Luxury Machine that is out to capture the market for those discerning few… (pictured above)… Panamera is the first of it’s kind for Porsche, packed with technological showcase, comfortable yet rugged and sporty, at the touch of button!

The most exciting bit comes on Saturday, I will be down in KL and unlike the norm of attending training, I will actually be presenting Panamera to the large audience during a launch ceremony at the Carnivale! Tried negotiating with the boss to spare me but when he’s once a client of mine, I realised all the exits shut hahaha…

Excitements abound and knowing me, I will definitely deviate from the norm and perhaps, this is the moment that I’ve been made for, to represent the avant-garde and outshine… Talking about that, here’s a glimpse of the interior…

I remember Iman teasing me during Main Aur Mrs Khanna movie outing that like Samir, I will return successful and during the period of his return, he laughed and said, perhaps Samir was waiting for his Letter of Offer too hahaha…

Anyway, the journey has just begun and there’s a lot of miles to cover, but knowing that the beginning is this awesome, I can’t wait to see what the road ahead holds for me, Nexus has returned, guess the principle of insisting to not accept mediocrity does pay off in the end!!!

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Wishful Love by Saira Khan

2009-10-15T22:30:00.001+08:00

A bleak morning brought a sunrise
A sunrise that came with his existence
A man from a distant land
A man who is wrecked by the night long journey

How fortunate may this day be
That these eyes got the sight of him
Tears that rolls on my cheek
For happiness and the torturing travel he took for me

People would often say
That I will travel a thousand miles for you
But here he lays
Travelling a thousand miles without telling me

Many men would lie words of love
To have a woman give all her dignity
But he is a man that stops me when I reach to kiss his lips
Under the night sky filled with stars and noises of bustling quay

I remember his words that made me his
When he told me that he can’t as yet love me fully
For the torment he went thru
Will not he punish me for the mistake of another being

For the mere person he may be a common man
But for me he is an angel sent from above
Luckiest person would be the Xxxxx of his
Till then, a wish of being Xxxxx for me will be

I may not be the woman he envision his life with
I promise that hurt him and have him face things he had I never will
But a man worthy of loving, treasuring and cherishing he is
For a man that has my respect, admiration and honour fully

I just saw this on my facebook as I was tagged and the person who wrote it said that she couldn’t write poems like some does, yet she did… In my opinion, this is truly a masterpiece indeed as it’s written not by crafting or forcing words but flows of sincerity… that is the essence of making a poetry a remarkable masterpiece… not the author or the poet but the words that are sincere…

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Test two

2009-10-13T22:39:00.000+08:00

Second test

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Test shot...

2009-10-13T22:37:00.000+08:00

Just a test shot on upload...

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7th Oct 09- The BEST DAY Of This Year!!!

2009-10-08T00:13:00.001+08:00

I have wanted to write this much earlier, but knowing the jinx of my premature excitement… I held it back till the clock ticked and brought upon today (8th Oct 09)…

Yesterday was THE BEST day of the year for 2009… so many things that happened, which I can’t disclose as there are matter pending but from the way things are flowing, I truly do believe that the universe will come in unison when you have faith and believe in it strongly!

I am thankful to The Almighty above for answering my prayers and listening to me during the toughest ordeal but to bless me with so much, I must’ve done something right somewhere!!!

You can’t possibly imagine the joy I have in me right now, but trust me, if you see me actually walking, I am gliding and soaring in sky… Thank you God, and thank you to my friends who prayed for me and assisted me in many ways… Thank you…

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LOOKBOOK 2010- For MODELS Only!

2009-10-02T02:26:00.001+08:00

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A Romantic Encounter: The Proposal

2009-10-02T01:31:00.001+08:00

The car came to a halt at the regal entrance of Shangri-La Rasa Sayang. It was a breezy night, the sky canvassed with stars that shines brightly. She was adorned in a red evening dress and I realised that she has grown accustomed to having the charm bracelet I got her from Tiffany & Co around her wrist.

She somehow sensed that it was a special evening as I kept insisting that she puts on a dress and avoided it whenever she suggested an evening of snuggle at home instead of fine dining escapade…

We walked thru the hallway onto the garden path, that is where magic was set to unfold eventually, but every little element was taken into account to reflect her choice…

The path to the beach is about 50M and it was lit by tiered candles in her favourite scent and colour, lavender… the tiered stands were white in colour with ribbon strips also in lavender, the base was covered with rose petals and the wind that occasionally blew actually created a trinkled path of rose all the way to the shoreline.

As we got nearer, Orion held my arms with amazement and awe as she caught sight of the gazebo, which was also in lavender theme and underneath it, a dining table for two, with a chef standing to welcome us for a dining experience like no other, also present were two butlers to ensure excellent service delivery…

“What is going on? And wow, what are those?” Orion asked shortly after taking a seat and looking at the inner decorations that was made out of styrofoam that are UV-coated on the ceiling of the gazebo.

“The doves are basically the symbol of peace and serenity I feel when I look into your eyes, the lilies represents your favourite flower, the ___ ___ represents your birthplace, ______ and the flyer represents the country where you reside now. The rest are your charms that adornes your wrist and I crafted based on things that you considered meaningful…”, I explained to her and realising her eyes that was glittery amidst the candlelights.

The chef prepared a sumptous delicacy for us, each menu accompanied by a selected champagne, each menu crafted with her favourite dish in mind. I was amazed that Chef Eric even took the effort to craft one dish based on tandoori which has been her favourite food of all time! That even gave me a shock that amidst foei gras, there was an indian dish!

As we dined, laughed and shared an evening filled with romance, I was wishing that all would turn out to be fine… Afterall, I toiled to ensure this to be a moment that would be remembered a lifetime. I kept looking into her eyes the entire evening, knowing that these are the pairs of eyes that I would want to spend my whole life looking into. This is the person that I envision growing old with.

Halfway thru the dinner, the three piece band emerged to serenade us some of the most amazing tunes, and of course, like everything else, this were songs that she absolutely loves…

As we ended our dessert, I stood up, walked over to her… “shall we?” with my hands extended towards her, she smiled and placed her fair palms on mine.

As we danced, I was feeling extremely blessed that I had her near me, that she was in my arms and I could feel her every heart beat… At times, she would turn away her glances from my eyes, it was as if the whole universe was in unison to shower us with feelings of love…

I pulled her closer, “I have something deep within my heart that I would want to share with you now”…

“What is it Nexus?”, Orion pulled herself away in order to concentrate.

“Not this way, come nearer”

She hesitated as she pays attention to all that I say and worried that her concentration would astray without eye contact…

I assured her as I leaned towards her… “for this, you don’t need the ears, but the heart to listen”

She inched nearer and smiled… “tell me love… what is it?”

“All my life, I grew up to facts that love is a wonderful thing, that romance gives one a joy that is unexplainable and that love would make a person do the craziest things… alongside it, life thought me the bitter truth of betrayal, unfaithful and greed of mankind… but every once in a while, a person would step in someone’s life and make them realise that life and love is indeed beautiful…”

She looked up and smiled knowing that those words were meant to define her… I continued before she uttered a word…

“They say, fall in love and give your heart to someone that knows you well and she knows you well, but like life’s experiences, I’ve come to know that someone I knew completely well yesterday, becomes an entirely different person in a blink of an eye, thus proving me ‘knowing this person’ to be a mistake”

“I don’t know about that, but I know this now, I might not have known everything about you, I might not know all your likes and dislikes, but I know this much that unlike others, you have made me feel on top of the world from the moment I set my eyes on your smile on that blissful day at _________ “

She gripped my hand tighter as she recalls that fateful day…

“I don’t want to know your favourite colour now, I want to know it on the day that I paint the living room wall 3 years later… I don’t want to know your preferred dish now, but I want to know it 5 years later when I bring it to bed during mother’s day, I don’t want to know your favourite dress now, I want to know it 20 years later when you’re getting ready to head out for dinner. I don’t want to know your favourite vacation spot now, I want to know it 30 years later when we rekindled love memories”

I took a step back, and she was startled for a moment, I got on my knee and looked up to her, while pulling a red box out of my suit…

“I want to set myself on a journey of discovering you, not for a year or two, where I would have known every single bit of you and to know that I have nothing else to discover, but I want to be on a journey of discovering you, cherishing you, loving you and building memories that would last me a lifetime, and for that, I request a time period of a lifetime, till my last breath”

“Orion would you let me embark on this journey of love and life, where I would be the fortunate one to have you as the last sight as I fall asleep at night and the first glimpse of sunlight when I awake in the morning, would you give me the honour of being your life partner… Orion, will you marry me???”

She was shocked and couldn’t contain her tears of happiness, she held my hands tight and said “YES!!! Yes i will marry you!!!”

As I placed the ring on her lovely finger, she hugged me so hard, “you already know every favourite of mine even without me telling, but for your journey, I will set on loving everything that you do, it’s only us after this my love”…

On the far horizon, flares of fireworks joined the stars of the night sky, as she hugged me she faced the scenery and held me tight… “I am the luckiest girl alive…”

I hugged her close to my chest, kissed her forehead with my eyes closed, envisioning the life ahead, as I opened my eyes, I realise the smile on my face, and the empty bed beside me… The night was silent yet the joy and exuberance of my dream was still ringing in my ears…

It was definitely the most remarkable dream and somehow, I believe that it will be a reality really soon… The amazing part of the dream is Orion and I never saw this person as Orion, but if it is her, than I would be extremely fortunate and couldn’t ask for anyone else from God…

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President Obama’s 1st Address to UN General Assembly

2009-09-27T20:29:00.001+08:00

Spent the evening today watching President Obama’s 1st address to UN General Assembly, I was awe inspired and extremely impressed with his address… He’s truly an amiable man, below you’d find the full video and also for those who prefers reading, the transcript of the address…

Video Courtesy: White House YouTube Channel

Transcript: White House Briefing Room

REMARKS BY THE PRESIDENT
TO THE UNITED NATIONS GENERAL ASSEMBLY

United Nations Headquarters
New York, New York

10:10 A.M. EDT

THE PRESIDENT: Good morning. Mr. President, Mr. Secretary General, fellow delegates, ladies and gentlemen, it is my honor to address you for the first time as the 44th President of the United States. (Applause.) I come before you humbled by the responsibility that the American people have placed upon me, mindful of the enormous challenges of our moment in history, and determined to act boldly and collectively on behalf of justice and prosperity at home and abroad.

I have been in office for just nine months -- though some days it seems a lot longer. I am well aware of the expectations that accompany my presidency around the world. These expectations are not about me. Rather, they are rooted, I believe, in a discontent with a status quo that has allowed us to be increasingly defined by our differences, and outpaced by our problems. But they are also rooted in hope -- the hope that real change is possible, and the hope that America will be a leader in bringing about such change.

I took office at a time when many around the world had come to view America with skepticism and distrust. Part of this was due to misperceptions and misinformation about my country. Part of this was due to opposition to specific policies, and a belief that on certain critical issues, America has acted unilaterally, without regard for the interests of others. And this has fed an almost reflexive anti-Americanism, which too often has served as an excuse for collective inaction.

Now, like all of you, my responsibility is to act in the interest of my nation and my people, and I will never apologize for defending those interests. But it is my deeply held belief that in the year 2009 -- more than at any point in human history -- the interests of nations and peoples are shared. The religious convictions that we hold in our hearts can forge new bonds among people, or they can tear us apart. The technology we harness can light the path to peace, or forever darken it. The energy we use can sustain our planet, or destroy it. What happens to the hope of a single child -- anywhere -- can enrich our world, or impoverish it.

In this hall, we come from many places, but we share a common future. No longer do we have the luxury of indulging our differences to the exclusion of the work that we must do together. I have carried this message from London to Ankara; from Port of Spain to Moscow; from Accra to Cairo; and it is what I will speak about today -- because the time has come for the world to move in a new direction. We must embrace a new era of engagement based on mutual interest and mutual respect, and our work must begin now.

We know the future will be forged by deeds and not simply words. Speeches alone will not solve our problems -- it will take persistent action. For those who question the character and cause of my nation, I ask you to look at the concrete actions we have taken in just nine months.

On my first day in office, I prohibited -- without exception or equivocation -- the use of torture by the United States of America. (Applause.) I ordered the prison at Guantanamo Bay closed, and we are doing the hard work of forging a framework to combat extremism within the rule of law. Every nation must know: America will live its values, and we will lead by example.

We have set a clear and focused goal: to work with all members of this body to disrupt, dismantle, and defeat al Qaeda and its extremist allies -- a network that has killed thousands of people of many faiths and nations, and that plotted to blow up this very building. In Afghanistan and Pakistan, we and many nations here are helping these governments develop the capacity to take the lead in this effort, while working to advance opportunity and security for their people.

In Iraq, we are responsibly ending a war. We have removed American combat brigades from Iraqi cities, and set a deadline of next August to remove all our combat brigades from Iraqi territory. And I have made clear that we will help Iraqis transition to full responsibility for their future, and keep our commitment to remove all American troops by the end of 2011.

I have outlined a comprehensive agenda to seek the goal of a world without nuclear weapons. In Moscow, the United States and Russia announced that we would pursue substantial reductions in our strategic warheads and launchers. At the Conference on Disarmament, we agreed on a work plan to negotiate an end to the production of fissile materials for nuclear weapons. And this week, my Secretary of State will become the first senior American representative to the annual Members Conference of the Comprehensive Test Ban Treaty.

Upon taking office, I appointed a Special Envoy for Middle East Peace, and America has worked steadily and aggressively to advance the cause of two states -- Israel and Palestine -- in which peace and security take root, and the rights of both Israelis and Palestinians are respected.
To confront climate change, we have invested $80 billion in clean energy. We have substantially increased our fuel-efficiency standards. We have provided new incentives for conservation, launched an energy partnership across the Americas, and moved from a bystander to a leader in international climate negotiations.

To overcome an economic crisis that touches every corner of the world, we worked with the G20 nations to forge a coordinated international response of over $2 trillion in stimulus to bring the global economy back from the brink. We mobilized resources that helped prevent the crisis from spreading further to developing countries. And we joined with others to launch a $20 billion global food security initiative that will lend a hand to those who need it most, and help them build their own capacity.

We've also re-engaged the United Nations. We have paid our bills. We have joined the Human Rights Council. (Applause.) We have signed the Convention of the Rights of Persons with Disabilities. We have fully embraced the Millennium Development Goals. And we address our priorities here, in this institution -- for instance, through the Security Council meeting that I will chair tomorrow on nuclear non-proliferation and disarmament, and through the issues that I will discuss today.

This is what we have already done. But this is just a beginning. Some of our actions have yielded progress. Some have laid the groundwork for progress in the future. But make no mistake: This cannot solely be America's endeavor. Those who used to chastise America for acting alone in the world cannot now stand by and wait for America to solve the world's problems alone. We have sought -- in word and deed -- a new era of engagement with the world. And now is the time for all of us to take our share of responsibility for a global response to global challenges.

Now, if we are honest with ourselves, we need to admit that we are not living up to that responsibility. Consider the course that we're on if we fail to confront the status quo: Extremists sowing terror in pockets of the world; protracted conflicts that grind on and on; genocide; mass atrocities; more nations with nuclear weapons; melting ice caps and ravaged populations; persistent poverty and pandemic disease. I say this not to sow fear, but to state a fact: The magnitude of our challenges has yet to be met by the measure of our actions.

This body was founded on the belief that the nations of the world could solve their problems together. Franklin Roosevelt, who died before he could see his vision for this institution become a reality, put it this way -- and I quote: "The structure of world peace cannot be the work of one man, or one party, or one nation…. It cannot be a peace of large nations -- or of small nations. It must be a peace which rests on the cooperative effort of the whole world."

The cooperative effort of the whole world. Those words ring even more true today, when it is not simply peace, but our very health and prosperity that we hold in common. Yet we also know that this body is made up of sovereign states. And sadly, but not surprisingly, this body has often become a forum for sowing discord instead of forging common ground; a venue for playing politics and exploiting grievances rather than solving problems. After all, it is easy to walk up to this podium and point figures -- point fingers and stoke divisions. Nothing is easier than blaming others for our troubles, and absolving ourselves of responsibility for our choices and our actions. Anybody can do that. Responsibility and leadership in the 21st century demand more.

In an era when our destiny is shared, power is no longer a zero-sum game. No one nation can or should try to dominate another nation. No world order that elevates one nation or group of people over another will succeed. No balance of power among nations will hold. The traditional divisions between nations of the South and the North make no sense in an interconnected world; nor do alignments of nations rooted in the cleavages of a long-gone Cold War.

The time has come to realize that the old habits, the old arguments, are irrelevant to the challenges faced by our people. They lead nations to act in opposition to the very goals that they claim to pursue -- and to vote, often in this body, against the interests of their own people. They build up walls between us and the future that our people seek, and the time has come for those walls to come down. Together, we must build new coalitions that bridge old divides -- coalitions of different faiths and creeds; of north and south, east, west, black, white, and brown.

The choice is ours. We can be remembered as a generation that chose to drag the arguments of the 20th century into the 21st; that put off hard choices, refused to look ahead, failed to keep pace because we defined ourselves by what we were against instead of what we were for. Or we can be a generation that chooses to see the shoreline beyond the rough waters ahead; that comes together to serve the common interests of human beings, and finally gives meaning to the promise embedded in the name given to this institution: the United Nations.

That is the future America wants -- a future of peace and prosperity that we can only reach if we recognize that all nations have rights, but all nations have responsibilities as well. That is the bargain that makes this work. That must be the guiding principle of international cooperation.

Today, let me put forward four pillars that I believe are fundamental to the future that we want for our children: non-proliferation and disarmament; the promotion of peace and security; the preservation of our planet; and a global economy that advances opportunity for all people.

First, we must stop the spread of nuclear weapons, and seek the goal of a world without them.

This institution was founded at the dawn of the atomic age, in part because man's capacity to kill had to be contained. For decades, we averted disaster, even under the shadow of a superpower stand-off. But today, the threat of proliferation is growing in scope and complexity. If we fail to act, we will invite nuclear arms races in every region, and the prospect of wars and acts of terror on a scale that we can hardly imagine.

A fragile consensus stands in the way of this frightening outcome, and that is the basic bargain that shapes the Nuclear Non-Proliferation Treaty. It says that all nations have the right to peaceful nuclear energy; that nations with nuclear weapons have a responsibility to move toward disarmament; and those without them have the responsibility to forsake them. The next 12 months could be pivotal in determining whether this compact will be strengthened or will slowly dissolve.

America intends to keep our end of the bargain. We will pursue a new agreement with Russia to substantially reduce our strategic warheads and launchers. We will move forward with ratification of the Test Ban Treaty, and work with others to bring the treaty into force so that nuclear testing is permanently prohibited. We will complete a Nuclear Posture Review that opens the door to deeper cuts and reduces the role of nuclear weapons. And we will call upon countries to begin negotiations in January on a treaty to end the production of fissile material for weapons.

I will also host a summit next April that reaffirms each nation's responsibility to secure nuclear material on its territory, and to help those who can't -- because we must never allow a single nuclear device to fall into the hands of a violent extremist. And we will work to strengthen the institutions and initiatives that combat nuclear smuggling and theft.

All of this must support efforts to strengthen the NPT. Those nations that refuse to live up to their obligations must face consequences. Let me be clear, this is not about singling out individual nations -- it is about standing up for the rights of all nations that do live up to their responsibilities. Because a world in which IAEA inspections are avoided and the United Nation's demands are ignored will leave all people less safe, and all nations less secure.

In their actions to date, the governments of North Korea and Iran threaten to take us down this dangerous slope. We respect their rights as members of the community of nations. I've said before and I will repeat, I am committed to diplomacy that opens a path to greater prosperity and more secure peace for both nations if they live up to their obligations.

But if the governments of Iran and North Korea choose to ignore international standards; if they put the pursuit of nuclear weapons ahead of regional stability and the security and opportunity of their own people; if they are oblivious to the dangers of escalating nuclear arms races in both East Asia and the Middle East -- then they must be held accountable. The world must stand together to demonstrate that international law is not an empty promise, and that treaties will be enforced. We must insist that the future does not belong to fear.

That brings me to the second pillar for our future: the pursuit of peace.

The United Nations was born of the belief that the people of the world can live their lives, raise their families, and resolve their differences peacefully. And yet we know that in too many parts of the world, this ideal remains an abstraction -- a distant dream. We can either accept that outcome as inevitable, and tolerate constant and crippling conflict, or we can recognize that the yearning for peace is universal, and reassert our resolve to end conflicts around the world.

That effort must begin with an unshakeable determination that the murder of innocent men, women and children will never be tolerated. On this, no one can be -- there can be no dispute. The violent extremists who promote conflict by distorting faith have discredited and isolated themselves. They offer nothing but hatred and destruction. In confronting them, America will forge lasting partnerships to target terrorists, share intelligence, and coordinate law enforcement and protect our people. We will permit no safe haven for al Qaeda to launch attacks from Afghanistan or any other nation. We will stand by our friends on the front lines, as we and many nations will do in pledging support for the Pakistani people tomorrow. And we will pursue positive engagement that builds bridges among faiths, and new partnerships for opportunity.

Our efforts to promote peace, however, cannot be limited to defeating violent extremists. For the most powerful weapon in our arsenal is the hope of human beings -- the belief that the future belongs to those who would build and not destroy; the confidence that conflicts can end and a new day can begin.

And that is why we will support -- we will strengthen our support for effective peacekeeping, while energizing our efforts to prevent conflicts before they take hold. We will pursue a lasting peace in Sudan through support for the people of Darfur and the implementation of the Comprehensive Peace Agreement, so that we secure the peace that the Sudanese people deserve. (Applause.) And in countries ravaged by violence -- from Haiti to Congo to East Timor -- we will work with the U.N. and other partners to support an enduring peace.

I will also continue to seek a just and lasting peace between Israel, Palestine, and the Arab world. (Applause.) We will continue to work on that issue. Yesterday, I had a constructive meeting with Prime Minister Netanyahu and President Abbas. We have made some progress. Palestinians have strengthened their efforts on security. Israelis have facilitated greater freedom of movement for the Palestinians. As a result of these efforts on both sides, the economy in the West Bank has begun to grow. But more progress is needed. We continue to call on Palestinians to end incitement against Israel, and we continue to emphasize that America does not accept the legitimacy of continued Israeli settlements. (Applause.)

The time has come -- the time has come to re-launch negotiations without preconditions that address the permanent status issues: security for Israelis and Palestinians, borders, refugees, and Jerusalem. And the goal is clear: Two states living side by side in peace and security -- a Jewish state of Israel, with true security for all Israelis; and a viable, independent Palestinian state with contiguous territory that ends the occupation that began in 1967, and realizes the potential of the Palestinian people. (Applause.)

As we pursue this goal, we will also pursue peace between Israel and Lebanon, Israel and Syria, and a broader peace between Israel and its many neighbors. In pursuit of that goal, we will develop regional initiatives with multilateral participation, alongside bilateral negotiations.

Now, I am not naïve. I know this will be difficult. But all of us -- not just the Israelis and the Palestinians, but all of us -- must decide whether we are serious about peace, or whether we will only lend it lip service. To break the old patterns, to break the cycle of insecurity and despair, all of us must say publicly what we would acknowledge in private. The United States does Israel no favors when we fail to couple an unwavering commitment to its security with an insistence that Israel respect the legitimate claims and rights of the Palestinians. (Applause.) And -- and nations within this body do the Palestinians no favors when they choose vitriolic attacks against Israel over constructive willingness to recognize Israel's legitimacy and its right to exist in peace and security. (Applause.)

We must remember that the greatest price of this conflict is not paid by us. It's not paid by politicians. It's paid by the Israeli girl in Sderot who closes her eyes in fear that a rocket will take her life in the middle of the night. It's paid for by the Palestinian boy in Gaza who has no clean water and no country to call his own. These are all God's children. And after all the politics and all the posturing, this is about the right of every human being to live with dignity and security. That is a lesson embedded in the three great faiths that call one small slice of Earth the Holy Land. And that is why, even though there will be setbacks and false starts and tough days, I will not waver in my pursuit of peace. (Applause.)

Third, we must recognize that in the 21st century, there will be no peace unless we take responsibility for the preservation of our planet. And I thank the Secretary General for hosting the subject of climate change yesterday.

The danger posed by climate change cannot be denied. Our responsibility to meet it must not be deferred. If we continue down our current course, every member of this Assembly will see irreversible changes within their borders. Our efforts to end conflicts will be eclipsed by wars over refugees and resources. Development will be devastated by drought and famine. Land that human beings have lived on for millennia will disappear. Future generations will look back and wonder why we refused to act; why we failed to pass on -- why we failed to pass on an environment that was worthy of our inheritance.

And that is why the days when America dragged its feet on this issue are over. We will move forward with investments to transform our energy economy, while providing incentives to make clean energy the profitable kind of energy. We will press ahead with deep cuts in emissions to reach the goals that we set for 2020, and eventually 2050. We will continue to promote renewable energy and efficiency, and share new technologies with countries around the world. And we will seize every opportunity for progress to address this threat in a cooperative effort with the entire world.

And those wealthy nations that did so much damage to the environment in the 20th century must accept our obligation to lead. But responsibility does not end there. While we must acknowledge the need for differentiated responses, any effort to curb carbon emissions must include the fast-growing carbon emitters who can do more to reduce their air pollution without inhibiting growth. And any effort that fails to help the poorest nations both adapt to the problems that climate change have already wrought and help them travel a path of clean development simply will not work.

It's hard to change something as fundamental as how we use energy. I know that. It's even harder to do so in the midst of a global recession. Certainly, it will be tempting to sit back and wait for others to move first. But we cannot make this journey unless we all move forward together. As we head into Copenhagen, let us resolve to focus on what each of us can do for the sake of our common future.

And this leads me to the final pillar that must fortify our future: a global economy that advances opportunity for all people.

The world is still recovering from the worst economic crisis since the Great Depression. In America, we see the engine of growth beginning to churn, and yet many still struggle to find a job or pay their bills. Across the globe, we find promising signs, but little certainty about what lies ahead. And far too many people in far too many places live through the daily crises that challenge our humanity -- the despair of an empty stomach; the thirst brought on by dwindling water supplies; the injustice of a child dying from a treatable disease; or a mother losing her life as she gives birth.

In Pittsburgh, we will work with the world's largest economies to chart a course for growth that is balanced and sustained. That means vigilance to ensure that we do not let up until our people are back to work. That means taking steps to rekindle demand so that global recovery can be sustained. And that means setting new rules of the road and strengthening regulation for all financial centers, so that we put an end to the greed and the excess and the abuse that led us into this disaster, and prevent a crisis like this from ever happening again.

At a time of such interdependence, we have a moral and pragmatic interest, however, in broader questions of development -- the questions of development that existed even before this crisis happened. And so America will continue our historic effort to help people feed themselves. We have set aside $63 billion to carry forward the fight against HIV/AIDS, to end deaths from tuberculosis and malaria, to eradicate polio, and to strengthen public health systems. We are joining with other countries to contribute H1N1 vaccines to the World Health Organization. We will integrate more economies into a system of global trade. We will support the Millennium Development Goals, and approach next year's summit with a global plan to make them a reality. And we will set our sights on the eradication of extreme poverty in our time.

Now is the time for all of us to do our part. Growth will not be sustained or shared unless all nations embrace their responsibilities. And that means that wealthy nations must open their markets to more goods and extend a hand to those with less, while reforming international institutions to give more nations a greater voice. And developing nations must root out the corruption that is an obstacle to progress -- for opportunity cannot thrive where individuals are oppressed and business have to pay bribes. That is why we support honest police and independent judges; civil society and a vibrant private sector. Our goal is simple: a global economy in which growth is sustained, and opportunity is available to all.

Now, the changes that I've spoken about today will not be easy to make. And they will not be realized simply by leaders like us coming together in forums like this, as useful as that may be. For as in any assembly of members, real change can only come through the people we represent. That is why we must do the hard work to lay the groundwork for progress in our own capitals. That's where we will build the consensus to end conflicts and to harness technology for peaceful purposes, to change the way we use energy, and to promote growth that can be sustained and shared.

I believe that the people of the world want this future for their children. And that is why we must champion those principles which ensure that governments reflect the will of the people. These principles cannot be afterthoughts -- democracy and human rights are essential to achieving each of the goals that I've discussed today, because governments of the people and by the people are more likely to act in the broader interests of their own people, rather than narrow interests of those in power.

The test of our leadership will not be the degree to which we feed the fears and old hatreds of our people. True leadership will not be measured by the ability to muzzle dissent, or to intimidate and harass political opponents at home. The people of the world want change. They will not long tolerate those who are on the wrong side of history.

This Assembly's Charter commits each of us -- and I quote -- "to reaffirm faith in fundamental human rights, in the dignity and worth of the human person, in the equal rights of men and women." Among those rights is the freedom to speak your mind and worship as you please; the promise of equality of the races, and the opportunity for women and girls to pursue their own potential; the ability of citizens to have a say in how you are governed, and to have confidence in the administration of justice. For just as no nation should be forced to accept the tyranny of another nation, no individual should be forced to accept the tyranny of their own people. (Applause.)

As an African American, I will never forget that I would not be here today without the steady pursuit of a more perfect union in my country. And that guides my belief that no matter how dark the day may seem, transformative change can be forged by those who choose to side with justice. And I pledge that America will always stand with those who stand up for their dignity and their rights -- for the student who seeks to learn; the voter who demands to be heard; the innocent who longs to be free; the oppressed who yearns to be equal.

Democracy cannot be imposed on any nation from the outside. Each society must search for its own path, and no path is perfect. Each country will pursue a path rooted in the culture of its people and in its past traditions. And I admit that America has too often been selective in its promotion of democracy. But that does not weaken our commitment; it only reinforces it. There are basic principles that are universal; there are certain truths which are self-evident -- and the United States of America will never waver in our efforts to stand up for the right of people everywhere to determine their own destiny. (Applause.)

Sixty-five years ago, a weary Franklin Roosevelt spoke to the American people in his fourth and final inaugural address. After years of war, he sought to sum up the lessons that could be drawn from the terrible suffering, the enormous sacrifice that had taken place. "We have learned," he said, "to be citizens of the world, members of the human community."

The United Nations was built by men and women like Roosevelt from every corner of the world -- from Africa and Asia, from Europe to the Americas. These architects of international cooperation had an idealism that was anything but naïve -- it was rooted in the hard-earned lessons of war; rooted in the wisdom that nations could advance their interests by acting together instead of splitting apart.

Now it falls to us -- for this institution will be what we make of it. The United Nations does extraordinary good around the world -- feeding the hungry, caring for the sick, mending places that have been broken. But it also struggles to enforce its will, and to live up to the ideals of its founding.

I believe that those imperfections are not a reason to walk away from this institution -- they are a calling to redouble our efforts. The United Nations can either be a place where we bicker about outdated grievances, or forge common ground; a place where we focus on what drives us apart, or what brings us together; a place where we indulge tyranny, or a source of moral authority. In short, the United Nations can be an institution that is disconnected from what matters in the lives of our citizens, or it can be an indispensable factor in advancing the interests of the people we serve.

We have reached a pivotal moment. The United States stands ready to begin a new chapter of international cooperation -- one that recognizes the rights and responsibilities of all nations. And so, with confidence in our cause, and with a commitment to our values, we call on all nations to join us in building the future that our people so richly deserve.

Thank you very much, everybody. (Applause.)

END
10:48 A.M. EDT

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Everyone Must See This!!!

2009-09-26T03:09:00.001+08:00

The title says every Indian must see it... but it's actually for every son of a nation who's progress is held back with millions excuses but not one right course of action!!!

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Silent Eid

2009-09-19T19:28:00.001+08:00

It's the eve of eid and finally am taking a time off after what just recently happened and I walked off disappointed n sad...

Two nights ago, I had the most wonderful dream, in which I was holding a lovely child in my arms that had eyes of an angel, rosy cheeks, soft thin hair and a smile that could make gloomiest day sunshiny bright.

As I kissed his forehead, I mentioned to him that I may not be the greatest man on earth but I promise that I will do all it takes to be the greatest father for him, Mikail Khan... And I vaguely remember thanking my wife for giving us a beautiful baby...

I turned as I said that and it was the most unbelievable person after so long but I did wake up with a smile amidst knowing that it could never be a reality, if it could, it would have already been... Funny how I never caught a single glimpse anywhere for a long long time, yet, the image was perfectly immaculate... Wow...

I'm the equivalent of the guy who sits at Central Park on Christmas' Eve feeling the snow in his fingers and being under mistletoe hoping for just one moment that someone could give him a warm sincere hug and he has a place he could call home...

I'm the wanderer, always been and always will... Guess what was said to me just now really did hurt, which at normal times wouldn't be such a big deal but at the state I'm in, it really did hurt... Oh well, one can try, but it's He who decides... As long as I've tried and gave my best shot...

Really wish my next Eid would be way different and if I could just have part of that recent dream come true, I'd consider myself truly blessed...

So have yourself a merry li'l eid and treasure your loved ones because the one's who usually values it the most are the ones who doesn't have it at all and wants it the most... To others, apart from the statement above, enjoy the holidays...

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Hang Tuah Failed SPM

2009-09-16T15:15:00.001+08:00

According to legend, Hang Tuah apparently failed SPM and in this re-enactment of an epic legend, we shall see him receiving the news of his failure…

Power Failure & Proposal

2009-09-14T15:50:00.001+08:00

It’s 1.50AM on 14th Sep 09 as I began keying in on my laptop on the day that we sit in darkness… no, not metaphorically but because the main power plant caught fire about an hour ago causing major power outage in BM and part of Butterworth…

So I thought, what the heck, no way I’m gonna be able to sleep, why not write an entry on my Live Writer that I could post up later on… so here I am…

I have one idea to write on, seems like this week has been all about proposals, not the business kind, but the kind where the guy kneels in front of his love of his life and say ‘will you marry me?’…

It all started with an endeavour of a gentleman who was sitting down wondering on the dream proposal… then came about a phone conversation where just before ending the call, I said to Saira, ‘The senior Khan is saying we gotta leave for terawih now, but hei, I’ll give you a ring (call) sometime”, which is a statement you give to someone you recently met and it’s no surprise that she was rather baffled with the ring statement hahaha…

Which resulted me in placing a stat on fb that misguided some people and required rectification but all’s well… phew…

Then, just a while back, saw a cool video of a proposal posted on fb and pasted that link and from the berry’s nots, seems like they’ve been some comments and have placed the video below… again, some people thought that it’s my proposal plan…

So, since there is nothing to write on and proposal is the agenda of the day… I am thinking, heck, I got no one to propose to, though some of my closest buddies would be ready to smack me once more, but take it as I’ve got no one that I intend to propose to at the moment, I might as well share the proposal idea I once had in mind… Placed in a scenario of the Romantic Encounter with a twist to it… ;)))

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She Wolf- Shakira

2009-09-04T02:17:00.001+08:00

Finally Sony released the full clip on YouTube and being an avid fan of Shakira, I was definitely mesmerized by her vid… can’t help but realise there are some parody and spoofs posted and posted by some hideous looking creatures…

Let’s just say this, Shakira is not only a gorgeous woman that could make a man wanna change his religion but she actually worked hard to be where she is and does not think that she is one level below God… Oh ya dimbwits, she is also a genius with an IQ equivalent of Einstein…

So if you aren’t as brilliant as her or have the actual ability to sway your hips and body like her, or even able to have 5% of her captivating beauty of hers… I would seriously suggest you to keep that rear end of yours air-tight cause while you think spoofs are making you famous with people laughing at your creativity, they are just laughing at your pathetic self…

Oh ya, to give an idea of what you have to be capable in order to actually do a parody on her, take a peek you losers…

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Lucky by Jason Mraz ft Colbie Callait

2009-09-02T23:57:00.001+08:00

This song has been on my mind every awakening hours… the melody and lyrics is just so captivating and I believe after hearing it, you would definitely agree with me…

Here’s the lyrics to the lovely song above:

Do you hear me,
I'm talking to you
Across the water across the deep blue ocean
Under the open sky, oh my, baby I'm trying

Boy I hear you in my dreams
I feel your whisper across the sea
I keep you with me in my heart
You make it easier when life gets hard

Lucky I'm in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Ooohh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh

They don't know how long it takes
Waiting for a love like this
Every time we say goodbye
I wish we had one more kiss
I'll wait for you I promise you, I will

Lucky I'm in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Lucky we're in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday

And so I'm sailing through the sea
To an island where we'll meet
You'll hear the music fill the air
I'll put a flower in your hair

Through the breezes through trees
Move so pretty you're all I see
As the world keeps spinning round
You hold me right here right now

“It never fails to bring sunshine to my cloudiest days… never fails to make me smile on days that I feel lowest… Never fails to make me feel luckiest when all the odds are against me…”

Who is your soulmate???

2009-09-02T23:27:00.001+08:00

It’s been a super hectic week at office and so many things that required priority attention so I would like to apologise for the absence of entries…

Today, I ask you all a question, who is your soulmate? Or what do you see when you envision a soulmate? So many people were asked this question and yet not many were able to explain it, and I realised that I too am unable to shed some light on this…

(this portion of content has been deliberately deleted to avoid encounters with fcuk faces)

And it was then that it hit me… the mere truth… there is no such thing as soulmates… it is what you make of the other person that determines the merger of two souls… it’s your actions and feelings towards the other that makes the connection and love happen…

Take this as an example, you have Nexus & Starlet… Let’s put it in a simple scenario:

1- Nexus loves with reservation, Starlet loves fully:

The thing is, Starlet loves Nexus wholeheartedly and would do anything, Nexus on the other hand, with his whole Kambakht Ishq behaviour goes like neh, ain’t needing love, ain’t wanting love and this results in frustration that ends with heartache for both parties…

2- Nexus and Starlet both genuinely love each other:

Both parties are committed to the emotions of love and this results in a relationship that to an outsider, seems like something truly enviable without realising that this refers to ‘love is pain’, as you work on it… it doesn’t come easy and requires sacrifices… it requires one to forget self and always put another person ‘paramount’… By just doing that, you’d see that there is a presence of soulmate where in fact, it is a manifestation of your own ;)

In your life, you would have various encounters… some are mere passers-by, some would be a temporary hi, some would be hi hello goodbye bye, some would be those you become good friends with and there are some who are iconic partners…

Icons, are just icons, present and existing till clicked, like that, these are the encounters (definitely not many in one’s lifetime) but these are the encounters that when you stumble upon them, whether when you are single, in a relationship or married, makes you wonder things like:

- wow, we do seem to be like two different people with one soul

- why do we seem so much alike

- there is something bout that guy/gal

- he/she is no one to me, yet he/she is everything to me

- many more things that makes you ponder and smile…

So my bit of advise is simple, always trust your instincts and feelings for they will not lead you astray… in the matters of heart, one should not be using the head, and if you decide to use your head, keep it focused on matters that are truly worth it…

If you hold on to something that you know is not worth the energy and time, few months down the road, you would regret wasting your time and wish that you did the right thing earlier to not loose the OTHER person whom you felt the connection with and could’ve been your soulmate… if that happens, don’t despair but have faith that there will be someone else coming along and it will be in your hands to make him/her your soulmate ;)

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The Lion City Sentosa Escapade…

2009-08-25T19:51:00.001+08:00

I’ve been trying for so many days to pen down my words but have failed impressively due to hectic schedule and also all the other things that comes along with ramzaan (terawih, buying food etc)… But as mentioned, I had another new prick who had to just come and spoil my day… Am not even going to bother talking bout things that are immaterial piece of shit, but since the mood is screwed up by folks from Bitchville, I might as well recall lovely memories that are much more precious…

So yeap, Friday was definitely remarkable, the interview went well and though the package seems to not be as exciting as some people hoo-haa-ed earlier, it still seems like a viable offer, but it will take two to tango so let’s not get too excited, premature excitement is not good!!!

As some were aware, I am the welcomed guest of Ms Saira J, who happens to be the daughter of my uncle’s friend (and we thought world’s big)… yes I successfully managed to evade the first sergi (you know, the meal before you start fasting for the day) with my gracious hosts who definitely needed convincing of a gigantic effort… but no, I failed at convincing on travelling by myself… So there was Mr Suresh, being the saviour of mine… He also insisted that he dropped me at my meet-up point which I knew was just one MRT station away!!! And he had the best line, ‘boss said to drop you on spot until you see his daughter”… and i was like oookkkkaaayyyyyyy hahaha… All this for being my uncle’s nephew and Mr Jahangir used to work alongside him way before…

Then I met my gleeful, cheery, gorgeous, heart-thumping, traffic-stopping and sometimes murdering host, Ms Saira J… let’s backtrack, the murdering is due to her driving skills that seriously puts me to shame wah wah… Instead of hitting the usual spots like Arab blehhhh St or Serangoon (yucks)… I was definitely awed and treated as promised to a side of Singapore that I’ve never seen before!!! Sentosa!!! Definitely a hidden jewel and it just made me wonder that on my countless trips, why did I not make it a point to come to such a cool spot… I mean romance lives and breathes in Sentosa!!! Even Saira laughed looking at me looking like a typical tourist hahaha… seriously, Bt Ferrringghi is nothing!!!

The evening was filled with so much laughter, joy and happiness, it was my first trip to Singapore after so long that was filled with genuine joy and child-like excitement… The dining bit was a mistake cos some people apparently will talk and talk that the first bite will be cold and by the time they are halfway, next course is up… not me not me hahaha…

To add the excitement, my host showed me around Siloso and we ended up having some cool delectable d’hourves… to die for and damn, it’s fasting month yet the taste lingers… I can’t thank Saira enough for that one evening, where two buddies met and connected like they’ve known each other for years… Funny how two people that shares the same fate could find resemblances that makes them wonder profoundly… Thanks sweety… We hang ten and we chill, the best buddies amongst the sea of strangers…

I got back from a remarkable evening and was tempted to do something stupid but thankfully, the mind prevailed and I did the right thing, you guys arent gonna believe this, but for as long as I remember, the night prayers of Ramadhan has been a must for my family, but as I grew older, I tend to miss a few days, actually, a lot but never missed the first night… So, it was the first night of terawih and there is no way in world that I’m gonna miss carrying out, so I stood, in my hotel room and prayed the terawih prayer… At that moment, I actually missed my dad who would’ve prayed in BM about 4 hours before… From that night, up to last night, I have not missed a terawih prayer Alhamdulillah and I’m truly in the most blissful state… Contented and my faith remains strong on Him after He guided me the last during my istikarah prayers…

Saira ji, kabhi zindagi mein, apne peraye hojate hain, aur kabhi, peraye log apnu sein zyada khushi dete hain… Aap ke liye to khas baat nahi hoti, meger jo insaan ko nazro se giraya hota hain, besharmi se mitaya hota hain, aur ekele se terep ne ke liye chora hota hain… uske liye ye baat bohot ehmiyet laati hain… Shukriya mein nahi kehungga, meger itna hain, aap ka intezaar hain, eid ke baat, jab aap hume moka dengi, aap ki mehmaan nawazi ka, Penang mein… ;D

Hei look, it’s just minutes away (thanks Ms Saira for the sms or I would’ve gone on and on) from the time to break fast on the 4th day of Ramzaan, and to my readers, Selamat Berbuka… I pray to Allah that He protects my family and blesses with the best that life has to give to all my friends and acquintances who stood by me and had the faith on me… This is surreal, as I was bout to hit publish, another SMS came from another person who never failed to make me smile when everything else failed to… Dr Shahida… Is this the medical profession related people day??? Hihihi… To everdearest Shahidoo, may you always be happy and laugh the way you always do, and aap ki shaadi mein, hume zaroor bolana aur Liberty ke des per ja ker, hume na bhool jana k…

Ramadhan Mubarak to Nexus Blog Readers

2009-08-21T02:18:00.001+08:00

Well, about an hour ago, I planned to hit the bed as I need to be fresh for my journey tomorrow and after twirling and twisting, I gave up… I just can’t sleep hahaha…

Being the to-do list guy, was planning to write the greeting after I blast out via sms to my database but since I can’t sleep, I am taking the opportunity to send my wishes to all of you… Don’t look baffled Bryan, there’s something in store for you too hahaha…

Alright, to my Muslim readers, wishing you the most auspicious Ramadhan Al-Mubarak, may Allah grant you all your wishes and in this holy month, may he bless you and realises all your duas… May you have the strength and patience virtuous of Ramadhan… May you abstain from the sins and may it be ever-lasting for months to come as you emerge as a member of the ummah… Amin…

Now to non-Muslim readers (specifically to my buddies as it might offend some, but they are my blood brothers of different mothers hahaha)… May God stop you at least this year from tempting me in doing the wrong things hahaha… Woi, let me be a good Muslim at least once a year la!!! Be it in form of food, liquid or even non-consumable food item hahaha… Bet Bryan’s laughing like a total keropok!!! Who can forget my buka puasa kaki last time, Ruthy… awww babe, gonna miss buying the kuih-kuih with ya!!!

All in all, it’s the time to count our blessings and apart from other blessings that I thank Him for, I gotta say that it’s a beautiful life made wonderful by all of you… Thank you for stepping in my mundane life and making it a havoc!!! Cheerios and toodles!!!

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The Journey Onwards...

2009-08-19T13:33:00.003+08:00

I'm extremely excited, Friday I'll be setting course for Singapore... The peeps at Orange (code-named in case negotiations goes awry)... So am keeping the excitement to the minimum too in regards to the interview as it's not a sealed deal...

Anyway, my flight in would arrive at noon and the interview will be held at 4pm... After which, my evening is going to be filled with makan-makan and jalan-jalan... ;)

I've been promised the side of Singapore that I've never have experienced before, and definitely some of the places mentioned in preview were rather unknown to me hahaha...

To my host, Ms SJ, thank you in advance for allowing me an audience, am definitely enthralled and I am still laughing so loudly whenever I think of your 'chini murghi' statement...

So here's a toast to a great evening ahead and moments of laughter and joy...

To my readers, please bare with me on my unavailability to reply as I will be connected via my second Malaysian number and it's by DiGi that doesn't support unlimited roaming data... I'll return all the messages upon my return on Saturday evening...

Till then, keep tuned in as I will be unveiling the CEO Conference details and also the Blogger's Confederation of Malaysia... The two initiatives to propel Plan B to it's glorious days, that once were...

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Passbook with Love…

2009-08-19T02:02:00.001+08:00

I was clearing my facebook inbox and stumbled upon an old message which is truly profound… just thought of sharing with you folks as it’s definitely heart-warming…

Jocelyn married William this day. At the end of the wedding party, Jocelyn's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook. With
$1000 deposit amount.

Mother: Jocelyn, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your
marriage life. When there's something happy and memorable that happens in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with William. When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.'

Jocelyn shared this with William when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.

This was what they did after certain time:
- 7 Feb: $100, first birthday celebration for William after marriage
- 1 Mar: $300, salary raise for Jocelyn
- 20 Mar: $200, vacation trip to Bali
- 15 Apr: $2000, Jocelyn got pregnant
- 1 Jun: $1000, William got promoted
..... and so on...

However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things. They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world! No more love!!! Kind of typical nowadays, huh?

One day Jocelyn talked to her Mother:
'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can't imagine
how I decided to marry this guy!!!'

Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if
you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember
the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of
such a poor marriage.'

Jocelyn thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the
queue and planning to cancel the account. While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears. She left and went home.

When she was home, she handed the passbook to William, asked him to
spend the money before getting divorce. The next day, William gave the passbook back to Jocelyn. She found a new deposit of $5000. And a line next to the record:

'This is the day I notice how much I've loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.'

They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe. Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not ask.
I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all
the good years in their life.

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‘Datuk’ Shahrukh Khan Detained for 2 Hours in United States… So???

2009-08-18T00:19:00.001+08:00

Saw in the news today, media abuzz on SRK being held for 2 hours at Newark International Liberty Airport. This reminded me of my old article I posted sometime back… Datuk Shahrukh Khan.... maa ehhhhh!!!

I bet fans around the world are throwing tantrums on the detention incident and as expected, the Indian media and political figures are calling for an equal treatment to be accorded to US VIPs and public figures during their visit to India…

And I’m certain the media of Malaysia would be joining the bandwagon to express their ‘disappointment’ on Datuk being detained… Certainly criticism and some experts would express their takes on the issue…

Let me bring everyone (including avid fans) back to reality… US is a sovereign nation that upholds law & order above everything else… When there is an uproar on discrimation, US is a country that does not discriminate definitely because apart from the President who travels on Air Force One, EVERYONE else is subjected to the same screening…

You see, all the kiss-ass elements in various countries that allows politicans and superstars to be accorded ‘special privileges’ is in fact a discrimation on it’s own… If you are a minister in some countries, you can swindle millions of dollars, put the best white collar criminal to shame and walk away with it all without being charged!!! But US is a country that even the President is charged to court of law for having an affair with a staff from the Oval Office!

For a country that holds it’s liberty and holds the law above all, this is exactly the right thing to do, so what if he is Shahrukh Khan or for Malaysians only, Datuk Shahrukh Khan! This 'VIP culture'' that gives some people a false sense of privilege and entitlement that does not sit well in a world of ever increasing security threats.

Evidently, as former vice-president Al Gore has experienced more than once. In one recent incident, an airline employee who helped Gore circumvent security screening at the Nashville airport was pulled up and the former Veep was brought back to go through security, which he did willingly and without making a fuss… He had all the right to, he was ‘supposed’ to be next President of US in contention with Bush…

Khan himself is said to have joked that Angelina Jolie must be subjected to the same treatment. Of course Datuk Khan, if Jolie or Clooney or Pitt (or Congressmen and Senators) are subjected to such treatment, it is unlikely we would ever hear about it -- since they seldom make a to-do about such things.

So Datuk Khan, reserve the regalia and royal manner to kiss-ass countries where law and order takes a backseat to accommodate folks who think they should be accorded ‘one-level-below-God’ welcome… Secondly, it’s rather a disgrace that you have forgotten to respect the laws and order of another country and to respect their culture… Snap out of it and don’t whine as your days are probably over just like Karan Johar has mentioned that you are rather ‘matured’ for the roles of Rahul in his movies and it’s time for ‘younger’ stars like Shahid Kapoor to take over the realm… So long Grandpa (no pun intended Datuk)…

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The Beat of Heart…

2009-08-17T14:47:00.001+08:00

Meet my bro, Salim Khan… a 39 years old young guy… A loving wife, three lovely children and flourishing business… Life seems to be all set for the high rollin… He was diagnosed with palpitation many years back and since then, I would get a call in the middle of the night to drive him to the hospital…

Palpitation is the irregular beat of the heart, whether it’s fast paced, slow paced or just a mixture of fast and slow… The cardiologist has been baffled as his heart seems to function normally, well, it’s not lethal as long he seeks medical attention during the occurrence…

I have been accustomed to this palpitation, last week, I drove him to the hospital, as we were driving down, he mentioned that it was rather severe this time round and I comforted him saying all would be fine… and he did pass me his lawyer’s number in case of anything happening to him, I could help sort out all the pertaining matters…

We checked in to the emergency unit and after 3 gruelling hours, the doctor mentioned that it has stabilised. It was 6AM when I left him in the HDU and went back home… I did not even call him the next day thinking ‘it’s nothing, dude’s fine’ and even mentioned it on fb…

Following night, he was allowed to go back home and then only he told me that after I left, about 30 minutes later, he was sweating and the alarm went off… apparently his heartbeat went up to 147!!! At that moment in time, he thought it was the end for him… and after a while, with a blink of an eye, it went normal… Thank God!!!

Though we were laughing as he was telling the story, especially with his expression of ‘I saw the light’ hahaha… it got me thinking as I laid on my bed… What if that morning that I left him at HDU was the last??? What if I never got to see him again and tell him that though we don’t meet up often… he is my brother that took me along in all his escapades???

All in all, it could be his want to survive that could’ve saved him… don’t underestimate the force of people around us, our family and friends, they keep us going when everything else fails… They become the strength and desire for one to continue living and saying that there is much to achieve…

My sister-in-law has been an amazing life partner to him, I remembered the day they got married and at that time, my bro was driving an old Mazda that me and Shane called batuk (the car had amazing jerk the moment I drove it)… but she stood by him during the tough times and became his strength when she joined forces with him to grow their business… They persisted and worked hard together to realise their dreams of providing a better future for their children, at times, they remind me of my mum and dad… They are blessed with three children and there’s no doubt that the future holds only greater things for them…

Remember, life has it’s turmoils and moments where you feel that it’s all to fail, but with the right elements, you’d achieve and soar to greatness… Sometimes, we complain to God saying why does he despair us in certain things, but we don’t listen to him when He says, that I took it away from you as I am preparing something much better that you deserve… So keep the faith strong and believe in Him cause He is The Almighty and All Knowing…

To my Bro, keep achieving greatness and I don’t envy you for all the success you have achieved and will achieve, but I do wish that God will grant me happiness like yours and make my wish of having a great loving life partner and Mikail a reality… I don’t know who will be Orion but I keep my faith that He will bring her to me, she might just be the one who says “tere naal mein awanggi, sesuraal mein jawanggi” and would make life worth living and giving me the strength and courage to achieve greatness… Amen…

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What’s your relationship status???

2009-08-14T12:47:00.001+08:00

This is written for Uncle Felix who has been asking the meaning of ‘It’s Complicated’ and ‘In An Open Relationship’ and everything in between… Well, I am not an expert sociologist but here’s my take…

See, the urbanites calls for choices, our coffee orders are a task on it’s own… There used to be a time that cars were only produced in one color: Black… and coffees were either Black or White! But it’s not chic enough, we need caramel or a hint of almond syrup and whether whip cream froth comes along or not is altogether a different choice… Getit?

Likewise, this trend spilled over in almost every aspect of our life… Choices upon choices… Dress colors? Hair colors? Type of pen? Heck, even our mobile phones are so complicated now, forget the functions, the mere outlook is confusing enough, flip, slide, clamshell, rotating, touchscreen, QWERTY keyboard… oh I can go on and on… but let’s not deviate… To the relationship shall we???

The olden days was easy, relationship status was either single, married or divorced. Many social networking sites adopt different approach to categorising relationship status, but on facebook, your choices are: Single, In A Relationship, Engaged, Married, It’s Complicated and In An Open Relationship. Let’s not even get to other sites that includes ‘Swinger’ as one of the status… Wow…

Single

You are not attached or in a romantic relationship with any soul on earth, probably you are just not keen in getting into relationship of any kind and committing till you find your Mr Right and Ms Right…

In A Relationship

This is where you have another half and facebook gives you the opportunity to proudly announce to the whole wide world that you are off the single’s list…

Engaged

The prelude to marriage…

Married

Well, how do I define this… oh ya… MARRIED!!!

Now comes the two quizzical status…

It’s Complicated

Some place the complicated in order to reflect their sexual preference that would otherwise be considered ‘taboo’ as they swing towards their own kind… This could also possibly come from various sort of relationship disasters… for example, a friend of mine placed this during his divorce, he is technically not married nor single and available… A friend of mine joked (but viable though) is by asking a person, what is your relationship status and if they go gazing into the far horizon and looking dazed with the question for more than 5 seconds: IT’S COMPLICATED!!!

In An Open Relationship

Somewhat plutonic, an open relationship is a relationship where one person does not own the other. The couple are not exclusively seeing each other and although sex is usually kept between the two, they can date, flirt and hook up with other people should they wish to do so, and even if that leads to sex... the other party is not allowed to question as the person does not belong to you… In a true open relationship the couple will be fully honest with each other… A relationship in which two people agree that they want to be together, but can't exactly promise that they won't see other people too. Basically, to have it all: a significant other and the freedom to hook up with other people… Common during college for many post-high school relationships but to put it in one-liner simple term: BOTH PARTIES IN THE RELATIONSHIP HAVE AGREED THAT CHEATING ON EACH OTHER IS COMPLETELY FINE AND OK…

So there you go Uncle Felix, a glimpse on the two confusing relationship status that we stumble upon… But if any of you readers have a different take on it… please take a few minutes of your time to share it with everyone in the comments…

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A Cuppa???

2009-08-11T11:46:00.001+08:00

So what makes a cup of coffee an indulgence??? What makes it one of the most sought after commodities of olden days and the craving of urbanites??? Is it the atmosphere, or the smell of perfectly roasted beans as you step in Starbucks Coffee???

Ask any coffee aficionado and he would be able to define it to you, after all, he/she has dedicated their life to the art of coffee perfection… the ability to differentiate different coffees from various regions by just the smell of it, and how carefully they craft the perfect brew…

It’s like a magic potion placed in cups of varied sizes; the right coffee beans roasted to perfection, coupled with conversation that is brewed with intelligence is a lethal combination...

For me, coffee has been the median of varied communications, from sealing business deals to a mere hang out cuppa with friends and everything in between…

No matter your drink, cappucino, ekspresso, latte or even the modern blended coffees of million combinations… it’s the essence of sipping the right blend that tantalises your senses that matters… the sheer feeling you have as you step out after being waved goodbye by the barista…

It’s a cuppa, more than common brew- it’s satisfaction…

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Love Aaj Kal- A Review

2009-08-11T10:27:00.001+08:00

So we went for the highly anticipated production galore of Illuminati Films after the success brought in by Kambakkht Ishq and there is only one way to describe the movie: FAIL!!!

Love Aaj Kal or it’s English translation would be ‘Love Nowadays’ or something of sort, the essence is the comparison of the traditional love and the ultra modern love…

Entertaining in the beginning, with the modern folks even throwing a ‘break-up party’ and parting sincerely and wishing each other all the best… This is where they introduced the traditional Romeo…

Ideologies clash where the modern guy can’t accept the fact that the traditional guy went hundreds of miles just to be able to catch a glimpse of the gal he adores, or how he pledged his love for her and took her as a soulmate even before meeting her…

And how the traditional guy just kept saying that modern love is not even love at all, there is no devotion and sincerity and how modern folks even do ‘it’ and then only ask the girl’s name…

That was interesting, as the audience was given a glimpse, you could see the old folks drifting to their younger days and the young audience laugh their ass off when the modern character says ‘but I’ve fallen in love 15 times, sire’ as response to the traditional character saying that ‘love happens only once’…

Then as all goes along just fine, they had to spoil it with doing the common hindi boo-boo… to forget reality and go into dreamland!!! The modern guy suddenly adopts the traditional ways and everything just goes downward for that movie from then… The moment of Uberfail!!!

I will not share more as some of you might not have the chance to view it, but if you ask me, don’t waste your money on it… It’s not worth it, but if you still insists, the songs might come as bonus but all in all, I only wish you ‘all the best’…

Technorati Tags: bollywood,cinema,saif ali khan,deepika padukone,illuminati films,love aaj kal

An Apology...

2009-08-04T18:14:00.000+08:00

Dearest Saira,

I'm truly sorry for writing things that would really hurt, for a glimpse of a while, I forgot how we should treat those who really respect and treasure us...

I perhaps am not even worthy to be forgiven but if you do see this, give me a buzz... I deleted all the contact details, from phone to email and I'm not in the vicinity of my pc right now...

Bes yuhi, ek do baatein ho jaye, do tin mulakate ho jaye aur tin char lamhe hojaye... ;)

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2009-07-12T21:33:00.001+08:00

takes a moment for prayer on the departure of my uncle (dad's younger brother)... Al-Fatihah...

Vultures & Politicians

2009-07-08T17:58:00.001+08:00

Manik Urai, a town in Kelantan is now at the center of attention, news as usual allocates 20 minutes on daily basis to campaigning... I call it campaigning as it's only one party that gains the spotlight...

What amazes me further is the throngs of politicians that suddenly has a deep interest in the local scene. Suddenly, they are seen at local diners, joining prayers at the mosques and even shopping at this downtown markets!!!

It's time they shift the gameplan and realise that the public has gotten much smarter, just like marketing, the old ways of campaigning no longer works and the approach to campaigning needs to be changed or it will bring the same dire result!

Anyway, it will be interesting to see the outcome as the fiasco within the opposition party has caused them dearly on public's confidence...

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MJ Memorial & What It Taught Me…

2009-07-08T13:21:00.001+08:00

Fans all over the world tuned in to watch MJ’s memorial via TV, web streams and to the delight of facebookers, via facebook in collaboration with CNN…

There were tributes, words of comfort and solace to the family, there were memories rekindled, there were tears shed, there were smiles amidst sorrow… It was definitely momentous…

I was dealing with my own sorrows that only a few people knew, feeling really sad and down, and it just got overwhelmed when I watched the MJ memorial. He was loved, cherished, treasured and valued by everyone whose lives he touched personally or thru his magical composing of songs…

Yet, as many of us know, he always felt and craved for all the moments that was depicted during his memorial. It was obvious in some of his songs, the words couldn’t explain more on what he needed.

It got me thinking at that moment, what if he was displayed by this love when he was alive? Could he have lived his life differently? Could it be that all he needed was the love showered on his memorial to be displayed earlier resulting him to live his life joyfully?

Why do we wait, until a person has departed for good, never to return, to tell and show the person that they meant the world to us? Why do we wait, when there is no opportunity any longer to let them know that we wish they stayed longer with us?

Will it harm us, if we were to tell things that were to be said during the memorial of the one we love, when they are alive? To tell them that they truly are the beacon of our live, to let them know that life without them is definitely a life not worth living, to pour our heart and soul to tell them that we love them wholeheartedly?

I was missing the fb live streaming moment badly because the last it was aired for Obama’s inauguration, I had another person far away who was logged in and we were practically living the moment itself, messaging each other, leaving statuses and comments… So much so that after two comments, I resulted to watching it on Astro… those were the moments that I truly cherished and felt ‘one’ with another person… if someone tells you that one channel is enough, those were moments that we had skype, facebook and YM for webcam ON, ALL AT THE SAME TIME!!!

So today, take the time, just 30 minutes of your time and think about your parents, spouse, siblings, children, friends or anyone that you treasure in life and think of how would you react if they were to be gone tomorrow, never to return and how would you express your feelings during their memorial… [a tip: those who resides on your speed dial…]

Once you have realised how precious these people are in your life, don’t just stop there, but take the time and tell them how much you love them and how much they are treasured and do the things that you would otherwise have done differently…

Do it and see the magic of life unfold before your eyes, when your parents who have been hurt by your absence, know that they are loved dearly by you or when your children who misses their dad and mum who are working but are holding them close today knows that they are still the apple of their parent’s eyes.

Whatever you do, don’t delay or hold it on for another day, as life has revealed to us, no moment is better than NOW… you never know if tomorrow might come for yourself or the person who you love dearly… Don’t let it be series of words you say during a memorial but make it words that would remain in memory for a lifetime…

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Modern Age PR & Marketing

2009-06-22T23:19:00.001+08:00

PR & Marketing goes hand-in-hand, it is the essence of a company’s positioning and revenue growth… The question many experts are asking today, does the old methods of marketing works in the current business environment???

I’m not an expert award winning marketing consultant, but here’s my take on this… Just like how technology has evolved tremendously, so has the PR and Marketing approach…

Take this for example, 10 years ago, the internet was the least preferred medium for advertisers, but today, every organisation (Fortune 100) has a budget allocated for online ads.

Online Social Networking sites (Facebook, Friendster, MySpace), IM (Live Messenger, Yahoo etc) and Blogs (Google Ads, Nuffnang etc) are among the mediums that are leveraged in the modern business environment… read: Time Spent on Facebook up 700%, but MySpace Still Tops for Video

Why? Because that is where the majority of audiences are… Think of this, when was the last you visited Celcom website to obtain information? And when was the last time you logged in to FB and stumbling upon the most highly irritating ad of Celcom that everyone complains about in FB??? Get my point… The audience is on this online platforms thus making it the preferred medium for advertisers…

Even for the irritating Celcom ad, I would say it gained an added mileage because often I would see people complaining on their status updates on the Celcom BlackBerry ad, giving it additional exposure simply on brand name and product offering.

Brands like Apple, Sony, GM, Intel and Dell are among the names that rely heavily on online audience to garner sales and increase their market share via branding…

So, if your business has not considered online advertising as part of your campaigns, it’s time that you seriously consider investing on this platform that is growing in number of audience and gaining more eye-views…

Technorati Tags: PR,Marketing,Advertising,Online Ads,Audience Outreach,Revenue,Sales,Celcom,Facebook,MySpace,Live Messenger,YM.

Happy Father’s Day Dad

2009-06-22T00:03:00.001+08:00

The year was 1947, a young man travelled to a foreign land, leaving his family behind in pursuit of better life abroad. As he stepped onto a foreign soil, all alone and with only one objective to be successful in life and make his father and mother proud.

He toiled, struggled and worked really hard to reach his goals. Sleepless nights, at times, in hunger and only diet of plain water to save money so that he can start his business. It was a condition that could have driven many to just give up but not this man.

After years of struggle, he started his own business, with the only partner, his wife. He would go outstation in his Toyota 700 and the wife held the responsibility of the house at daytime and when he returns from his trip with orders they would stay up till late night packing the goods to be delivered.

Bit by bit, with perseverance and determination, they got their own business premise and with the vision of having their children continuing the legacy, the company was aptly named- Khan & Sons…

From then on, vision started becoming a reality, they raised three children by the name of Yusuf Khan, Ayub Khan & Salim Khan who joined in the family business and brought it to the next level. They were the beacon of this couple’s success. Years down the road, the couple had another son, Firdaus Khan (who was destined to be the black sheep definitely haha)

The business flourished and grew to an empire of textile and muslim apparels, from clientele who were small businesses in towns to conglomerates in major world centers. Today, Khan & Sons Sdn Bhd is not an unfamiliar name in the industry.

Ismail Khan has realised his dream, a dream that was carved in his mind and soul, to see his business grow so that his sons could have a great life and he always did that where he chose to live in mediocrity. Now, his vision is to see his grandchildren bring it to the level of being dubbed Khan & Sons Bhd!

Dad, I’m so grateful to God for giving me a hero in you. A man whom I wish I can emulate even in the most minor ways. If He could just bestow me the qualities you have in you, I would be extremely fortunate…

Happy Father’s Day Dad, I never said it often to you but I love you so much dad, you’re my idol and my icon. I will always uphold the honor and pride of your name and will fulfill every wish of yours. Like you have wished, it will not be long when people will look at you and say, ‘look, that is Firdaus Khan’s father’… I will make you proud and I thank you for being the man who supported me in each part of my life’s journey and picking me up when I needed a lift… I can’t thank you enough…

To my three brothers, who are also fathers themselves. You are also my friends whom I have always counted on, when everything falls apart for me, you guys have always convened to bring me back up. Though I dubbed it as the Supreme Council, but I know, this are the three guys who ran up and down our house’s staircase when they announced my birth…

May Allah always safeguard my family which has these fine men in it. The men who selflessly raise their family, I wish all your dreams, visions and aspirations come true. Amen. This is the League of Extraordinary Gentlemen and I salute your endeavours and sheer determination… Hopefully, one day I would be a part of this league as you all wish me to be and with your prayers and blessings, I definitely will… InsyaAllah…

Technorati Tags: father,father's day,family,Ismail Khan,Yusuf Khan,Ayub Khan,Salim Khan,Khan & Sons

Extraordinary Luncheon

2009-06-13T20:01:00.001+08:00

Well, it was an awesome day nevertheless, the roundtable session with 30 state representatives with Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew was rescheduled to after luncheon as they were delayed in meeting earlier.

The luncheon was regal nonetheless but the security details for the event was definitely top notched. Firearms and explosives aside, even any frequency transmitting devices (mobiles/radio) and image capturing devices (handycam/digicam) were not granted audience.

Halfway thru the luncheon, MM Lee Kuan Yew delivered his speech to the audience. A speech that was short and precise, about 20 minutes but yet at the end, it made the listener wanting more!!!

True, like I mentioned on my facebook stat, you actually haven’t lived a life if you never had the opportunity to hear Dr M and MM Lee Kuan Yew addressing a live crowd!!! Two fine gentlemen who are able to capture their audience attention and deliver their message with rhetorics and sheer genius!!!

Just like Dr M, there is a lighter side to MM Lee Kuan Yew, whilst not letting his guards down or making any ‘clausible’ statements… for instance, what strucked me most was when a reporter casually asked him, "if Penang was to be a nation of it's own, would Singapore adopt Penang with similarities that two nations have in common?", he smiled and jokingly replied, "Penang is a State of Malaysia and is a part of a great constitution, nevertheless, even if the impossible happens, you don't pursue a relationship with anyone that will never let go of the past and keep thinking of their previous love, you will pay the price of the hurt caused by another, in other words- it's known as rebound…”, in that short sentence,he probably indicated that it was a question he rather left unanswered and did not answer a yes or no yet shadowing it in a humorous response... simply el remarkable!!!

All in all he left us wanting more, to be inching closer and to have a moment with him to know some of the finest leadership points. Here stood before me a leader who made a significant change and elevated a nation to be the gigantic force of Asia. I always loved seeing how his interaction with Dr M has been all these years, two men who are formidable foes yet friends at the same time. The ones who uphold the chivalric code of war that even an enemy is given due respect and accolades to be recognised that he is fighting for a worthy cause in his soul!

King’s Conference to Address PPSMI…

2009-06-11T16:32:00.001+08:00

Saw on the news today, that they are seeking the King’s Council to evoke a by-law that will invalidate the teaching of science and math subjects in English for schools in Malaysia!!!

Their argument is that rural children are not able to comprehend with English education due to language barrier! The rural children are accustomed to Bahasa Malaysia thus they face difficulty in excelling in their studies…

This is the most ridicolous and absurd excuse. What the government envisioned when coming up with this was to prepare students for their future overseas studies opportunities. English IS a global language and missing out on it means barrier for global approach.

So are we saying that we would like to remain where we are today, 10 years, 100 years and 1000 years ahead??? Someone stop this stupidity and stop it fast before we put a block to future’s progress!!!

Is Your Partner Embarrassed Being With You?

2009-06-11T16:15:00.001+08:00

Saw a question posted by someone on AskMen.com to Dr Love about his girl who is comfortable with PDA (Public Display of Affection) when in public but when it is in some domains such as friends etc, she holds it back… So what does it actually mean???

I have dealt with a scenario where my friend was browsing his gf’s profile online with her being beside him on the bed… and one pic that caught his attention was a picture labelled ‘the good memories’… she apologised but it made him wonder, probably she did loved that guy wholeheartedly that even when she said my friend is her life, she still held on to the past and it haunted him forever that he could never be loved the same way, which turn out true as she mentioned to him…

Another guy friend of mine, hid his relationship status with his girlfriend from the public domain because he was embarrassed of acknowledging the gal as his gf… she saw one of the inbox message in which another hot gal actually questioned him on why is he being with such a fugly gal when he is truly a hot guy who could get any gal he wants… the gal was disappointed to realise that the person still existed and was talked to amidst her insulting his bf’s gf!!!!

Then came the issue where one of my friend was telling me about her boyfriend who is keeping her hidden in the closet… like in a showcase… He is a steward who even make the guys and girls drool alike… totally hot!!! My friend on the other hand, is an average girl next door. What hurts her is that, her boyfriend could put up a million pictures of him and raking in so many comments from other hot gals and the pictures that he put of them together (probably just 1% of number of pics of him alone showing his six-pack and looks) is miserably sorry to look at… To make matters worst, some pictures were taken on dates with other gals and she can see this gals coming and showing their appreciation to the pictures… Of course, this gals were given high spotlight before the relationship began as these gals were definitely hot and it was a pride to showcase their company with him… Which he deleted after they got together but as a rebel method, even her pic were not showcased…

The last one, before I go to my conclusion, is a story bout my guy friend who dated a hottie, both of them were avid clubbers, but they rarely met due to distance, he in Penang, she in KL… He used to see her displaying her party scene pictures with all the hot guys, really up close and personal shots that many would envy, when they got together, the clubbing scene was pretty mundane, she didn’t dress up as hot as she did on other occasions, and there was once an incident that it was his birthday and he wanted to dance really close to her but she kept inching apart and that got him hurt, when he just seeked a little explanation, he was yelled in front of everyone… months down the road, he realised that the parties has been going on behind his back all this while and what crushed him was seeing pictures of her dressing so gorgeously hot, revealing and inviting, proven on other pics of hers being the way she was before they got together…

You got the scenario so far??? Here’s my take on this, your partner is simply extremely embarrassed to be with you!!! In all the cases, one thing is common, one from the two is a hawt stuff while the other is just below par… The below par would do anything to not lose the hawt stuff but on the other hand, the hawt stuff is not single bit bothered!!! This is common, the dominance placed on relationship which overflows to continuum, it is inevitable people!!! The below par would display the hawt stuff on every opportunity, even before being asked, it’s like ‘see I have my most precious treasure and it’s him/her…’ while the hawt stuff would disassociate unnecessary linkage to safeguard reputation and to keep their options open…

My bit of advise would be simple, if you are in any of the above situations, talk it out with your partner, sometimes, things that seems so mountainous to us are just small matters to another, talking and letting them know what is hurting you, is probably the best way… and if after talking to your partner, you do not seem to gain positive results, then walk out from the relationship, because if you really did mean a lot to the other person, it will be acted upon immediately…

Do not in any circumstances try to pursue it further because the result would be much more damaging to you emotionally, you see, the hawt stuff has nothing to lose, two weeks down the road, they might just go thru their list and have life back as usual, like your presence is never realised, your absence will not be missed when there are ample better opportunities that comes without frills of relationship… While you will be sorrow filled and hoping for things to turn out ok, when in fact, they never would… it will be far more damaging to realise that while all this time you were trying to work things out, your partner has sailed and moved on far beyond the horizon, that would kill your hope which is a good thing but the emotional toil would be unbearable for another long run. What could’ve taken you just a month to get over perhaps will end up taking one year due to your never-ending pursuit!

So lay back, put it behind and move on, IMMEDIATELY!!! There is no one stopping you from living your life, go on, have your parties, meet new people and do anything necessary to get over the hawt stuff, because even if you do, the hawt stuff is already doing that!!! Once you are cheated on, it never ends, so don’t believe it when the hawt stuff tries to tell you (if they do bother actually), that it was just innocent escapades, they are NOT!!! You are immaterial and don’t feel sorry for yourself, accept it and elevate yourself, if you are ugly, seek cosmetics help… if you are fat, lose weight… if you are poor, work hard for the money… Do anything necessary to emerge as the hawt stuff…

For all you know, just like you, who is hurt to see the person move on like you are totally worthless, unwanted and seeing them having a great time ignoring your existence amidst countless calls and messages… this might just turn around and make the hawt stuff realise that ‘shite, i am about to loose her for good… she is not a loser when other guys are in fact flirting and hitting on her, when they are displaying her pictures together with them’ and who knows, by then you might have been comfortable being without the hawt stuff when other hawt stuff are in fact proud of you!!! If someone is embarrassed being with you, save them the misery and be with someone who would be proud of you… You are a great person and don’t let anyone pull you down, hold your chin up knowing that someone else out there takes you as their universe, you know the pain, appreciate the other person and let him/her smile…

2009-05-20T02:14:00.001+08:00

is finally done adding 10 networks to ping.fm which will be updated with one click of a button... any BBians know of Ping.FM App for BB???

Point of View...

2009-05-19T11:50:00.000+08:00

At times in our life, we are so accustomed to living life as it comes and we accept anything that is dispensed upon us.

Whether you like it or not, this things are common, whether it is your boss giving you hell in the office, your colleague who just never understand teamwork or your family that demands the impossible... This matters are inevitable, but they are also rectifiable!

It's all about how you view them, do you view them as an obstacle hindering you or do you view it as another norm that you could take opportunity upon?

Yet, rather than working yourself out upon choices, at times, it is best to STOP and take three steps back. Doing so, though eccentric, would allow your point of view to expand and often, you'd see a broader horizon...

Perhaps, this would make you realise that there is much breathtaking scenery that missed your eyes all this while due to your refusal of expanding your point of view...

So go on, I mean STOP! Take three steps back and realise that there is much to discover once you embark on broader horizons...

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Who is Orion???

2009-05-14T01:57:00.001+08:00

Someone asked me today, you always speak of Orion, every other time she's mentioned in ur facebook, in your blog, practically everywhere... Who is she?

I smiled because it's been a long time someone asked me this question and I said, well, Orion is love of Nexus' life... After my explanation, the common standard questioned followed, what is so special about her and why would you be willing to give your life for her?

Orion, she's a lady of a different stature, the lady that when I have set my eyes on her, no other beauty captivates my heart.

She has a flair in her, the air of confidence and the aura that radiates from her is astonishing… She evokes the poet in me, she makes me wanna do the craziest things, she transforms a beast into a hopeless romantic…

There is much about her that if I were to list down one by one, probably the cyberspace would clog, heck, even the PC would get on fire but let me just say a few things about her that I love the most…

She loves me…

I look at myself in the mirror, I know the truth, I ain’t one of them hunky guys that makes girl’s heart skip a beat, I am just a regular guy, walking the normal path of life, yet, the sparkle in her eyes says it all that I’m her hero, the guy she could turn to and count upon. And things I lack has never been something she take as a compromise to love me less.

She picks me up when I am down…

Life has it’s ups and downs, but everytime life pulls me down, I could see Orion ready to pick me up and instill so much confidence that I dust myself and raring to go higher…

She’s Hopeless Romantic…

When a guy has been dreaming of sweeping a princess of her feet, what could be the greatest gift of love to discover a girl who has been wishing for a prince (even if he’s a Shrek haha)…

She’s Proud of Being With Me…

Wherever we are, she is always proud to proclaim that she belongs to me as much as I belong to her, being the angelic beauty she is, it amazes the mortals on how could I have won such a heart. Guess the stars did shine right…

She Run Towards Me…

Whenever I am angry or frustrated about things that goes wrong, she would run towards me and pamper me with her love, no matter how angry I am, I would be smiling and eventually laughing- grateful that I have someone running towards me…

She’s not my spouse, but plays her role as one…

Men or women alike, does not want to commit, what more play the role of being another’s spouse spiritually, yet Orion, give me a glimpse of what the future holds to be married to her… I can’t wait for the day that I would take her away because what I have now is so precious to lose.

I’m No One, Yet I’m Everything to Her…

Do you know how it feels to be something so worthy and precious to someone else and how they treasure you? Ask me! I’m Orion’s virtous soulmate and her love towards me shows it all, I feel it in my veins, in every beat of my heart that beats… Because of her…

Oh my, look at me going on and on, sorry… got carried away, but this is afterall, Orion that I’m talking about and even this seems so little and short for the lady who loves me unconditionally, for whom I am her universe like she is mine… I am blessed to have you in my life Orion and thank you so much for loving me…

Facebook App (Version 1.5) for BlackBerry

2009-04-27T00:51:00.001+08:00

Finally, after much uproar, leaks and ninja appearances on the web, RIM has officially launched the latest Facebook App for BlackBerry. Not much has changed on the layout but holding on the BlackBerry’s principle of prioritising delivery than showmanship, 3 features truly stands out, but before that, download the app:

http://mobile.blackberry.com/ (from your BlackBerry) or http://na.blackberry.com/eng/devices/features/social/facebook.jsp#tab_tab_download (from your desktop)…

Once loaded, you’d realise that apart from ease of commenting and liking friend’s feed, the three features listed under the options are:

1- BlackBerry Calendar Application

Ticking this allows the integration of your BlackBerry device calendar with your Facebook calendar which features events and birthdays primarily, so girls, he does not have a reason to forget your birthday anymore ;)

2- BlackBerry Message Application

There is one folder that integrates email messages, Yahoo Messenger, MSN Messenger and BlackBerry Messenger messages under one folder, ticking this would allow facebook notifications to be integrated in the same folder…

3- BlackBerry Contacts Application

This has got to be one of the coolest thing, it syncs your Facebook Friend’s List with your BlackBerry Contacts!!! So if you have a friend who has the same email address for his Facebook as in your BlackBerry, his details would be synced!!! So for someone whom you might have only his number and not company details, it will be updated… but there is more to it, if you scroll down further on the set-up and tick the option to update photos:

THEIR PROFILE PIC WILL BE ADDED TO THEIR CONTACT DETAIL!!!

There are cases where you have two emails of the same friend but they seem to not sync is due to the fact that the friend is using another email address, so for this cases, all you have to do is just choose their name from the friends list and click on ‘Connect to BlackBerry Contact’ which will bring up your address book, scroll to find the person and voila, it links up both the details!

For those who has broadband and prefer to see than read, here’s a YouTube explaining the 3 features… Till then, happy facebooking on your BlackBerry and if you are on facebook, I will be creating a group for all friends to share their resource on everything BlackBerry soon!

Technorati Tags: Facebook,BlackBerry,Version 1.5,social networking,mobile,technology

Top 29: Best Cities To Live In!

2009-04-18T14:11:00.001+08:00

Askmen.com brings the special feature on Top 29 Best Cities to Live In…

“2009 has been a rough year so far. Financial markets have tanked worldwide, those of us who still have jobs are waiting to lose them, the British Auto Show was cancelled, and Gisele got married. It's all enough to get one dreaming of a fresh start -- and what better way to get one than to start a new life in a new city? It's with this in mind that AskMen.com brings you our inaugural guide to greener pastures: The Top 29: Best Cities To Live In.”

http://www.askmen.com/specials/top_29_cities/index.html

The AskMen.com editorial team chose this year's best cities by applying a statistical formula to eight lifestyle categories (you'll find them listed within each city's profile), then evaluating the results in conjunction with some of the less tangible characteristics that make cities great cities. Of course, the ongoing global recession influenced the selection and ranking of the Top 29; criteria such as cost of living and economic stability carried greater weight than they might have in different circumstances, securing places for some surprising inclusions. Their spots didn't come at the expense of some classic favorites, however: cities like New York City and Paris have experienced an economic beating, but they still offer enough in the way of women, culture and entertainment to offset this.

In short, the cities on the list are diverse, but they all have one thing in common: They're great cities for men to live in. Enjoy the Top 29! Start with No. 29

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Calon Bebas for Penanti?

2009-04-16T20:02:00.000+08:00

Here I am watching the news and I heard that current MP for Penanti has left the seat vacant.

In the whole melodramatic political scene of Malaysia, comes another twist which calls for a by-election! That too in the stronghold territory of Dato' Seri Anwar Ibrahim!

Knowing me, I have always been taking the outrageous steps in life, at this moment, I sit and ponder on this question: Should I contest as Calon Bebas for Penanti???

Crazy, outrageous, unbelievable- if Obama thought the same, he wouldn't have made history right???

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Marketing- New Age

2009-04-16T13:48:00.000+08:00

The way businesses are marketing themselves in the new age has evolved tremendously. The net has become most vital to reach out to the tech-savvy generation.

So the question I'd like you think off, no matter how traditional your business is... What marketing strategy are you deploying for your business to succeed in the new age?

Think of it, if you are interested in reaching out to the vast audience, there are various avenues and talk to us to find out how you could leverage on tech-marketing...

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Being Extraordinary!

2009-04-15T17:26:00.001+08:00

Amazing! Great! Remarkable! Superb! Marvellous!… Combine all of these traits and you’d simply be- EXTRAORDINARY!!! You find extraordinary personalities in every walk of life, businessmen, professionals, artists, sportsmen and even activists who fight for a cause.

“But how does one become extraordinary? Does it take a stroke of luck, a lucky charm perhaps? Or does the old adage hold true, champions aren’t born, they are made! I would say, it takes determination, hardwork, perseverance and continuous pursuit of excellence that gives birth to an extraordinary personality!”

Here it is, a compilation of some common traits that you would see in an extraordinary personality, if you have it, congratulations but if you don’t have it, it’s time you redefine yourself and elevate to being extraordinary…

Trait 1- Extraordinary Personalities Knows What They Want

Knowing what you want and setting yourself on the right direction would allow you to reach your goals without hindrance. That is why extraordinary personalities seems to have things coming their way effortlessly.

Trait 2- Extraordinary Personalities Are Competitive

Gladiators goes into the arena knowing one fact, kill or be killed! Likewise extraordinary personalities are known to be naturally competitive in reaching their aims.

Trait 3- Extraordinary Personalities Stands Out From The Rest

Common men would use the common way out and say, I am just following what everyone else is doing, but extraordinary personalities do not conjure to the norm and does things that sets them apart. To follow the current of a stream is easy, it takes much more to go against the stream.

Trait 4- Extraordinary Personalities Are Highly Influential

Being influential is a result of a personality that is approachable and master of communication. That is why politicians that are favoured by media will get positive coverage amidst their wrong-doings and some who are genuinely working on the best interest of public seems to be off the spotlight due to their poor media relations.

Trait 5- Extraordinary Personalities Use Knowledge & Facts

Arguing without facts that are verifiable or concrete data is like stepping into warzone without Military Operation Plan, you are set to be destroyed by the enemy. An extraordinary personality will not engage in any sort of confrontation without having knowledge and facts to back up their claim.

Trait 6- Extraordinary Personalities Never Fears Failure

Failure is something that is dreaded by many of us, while for extraordinary personalities, it is simply a sign of ‘things to avoid’ and they either manoeuvre thru the obstacle or create a new gameplan. They only give up on it when there is something better to pursue or they have realised that the return is not worth the time spent to pursue it.

Trait 7- Extraordinary Personalities Are Confident

Look at great leaders around the globe and they would seem to carry the air of confidence with them that is second to none, an extraordinary singer could perform and deliver an astounding performance in front of hundreds of thousands fans with confidence.

Trait 8- Extraordinary Personalities Are EXTRAORDINARY!

Believe in yourself and do not let anyone hold you back from being extraordinary, like many things in life, it is within your hands to shape the foundation of your life and to decide on how you would want to live your life.

There are many more but this would be the essence of emerging extraordinary personality, once again, if you don’t have it, just like me who has many of this to be build, fret not as these are qualities that you could cultivate and I wish you an extraordinary life ahead…

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Defining Marriage

2008-12-06T12:09:00.000+08:00

Technorati Tags: marriage,love,Burcin,quotes,husband,wife

It's been a long time since I actually wrote, been pretty busy with so many things happening, nevertheless, had a wonderful conversation from the airport to bro's house with Abe Burcin (Khan & Sons' Turkish supplier who has become part of the family)

He has looks that makes women melt and slang that makes me laugh!!!, like in Thai, Pierce Brosnan speaks Turkish in the movies.

Anywho, he spoke bout marriage today, of all topics cause my bro told him earlier that I am getting married soon... So like the other 3/4 million folks who spoke to me about marriage, his is latest and most unique I'd say...

'Love in marriage is like air-con in car', he said... and you could see the dumbfounded look on my face, I wondered if it meant that marriage is hot at times and cold most times... and he went on to explain... (thank God!)

I couldn't place his slang here but the simplest explanation would be, a car is dysfunctional without the basics such as tyres, engine, steering and brake. But having air-conditioning in car is a compliment to it... to have a lovely, comfortable and relaxing journey, you need air-con, but without which, the car could still function but with lots of discomfort...

Like that, a loving marriage makes a whole lot difference in one's life but should never be the main criteria, the main criteria is the tyre and engine, the ability to know your responsibility as a husband and to ensure that you have a marriage where both parties plays their role...

Things that are blinded by love in the beginning are the same things that would make a vast difference and affect the livelihood of a marriage, this could not be far from the truth as witnessed by me among people who are married with kids calling their marriage off due to things that are absurd and unreasonable!!!

That being said, it is paramount that one should do all they can to live by the quote 'it is not the destination, but the journey that matters'... have a safe trip, Godspeed and keep the air-con on buddy... ;)

Professional Communications Dilemma

2008-10-13T22:58:00.000+08:00

Technorati Tags: plan b,communication,training,public relations

Communication is the integral element of any relationship, be it our personal life or a professional life. The importance of communication is mentioned in every publication that talks about relationship, business, marketing, sales, psychology and many more.

Businesses today are facing an era of revolution, where we could be replying to an e-mail, answering a mobile phone and seeing the RSS Feed of today’s headline- ALL AT THE SAME TIME!!!

This has resulted in the depletion on the quality of communication itself, instead of replying a client’s email professionally, we end up responding like we would have to a friend’s email and thus jeopardizing the reputation of the organization we represent.

Some thoughts for you would be- Can you afford to sound like a teenager when your client sits on the board of a Fortune 500 company? Imagine losing a multi-million dollar deal due to poor communication? Would you risk spending million dollars on A&P only to be tarnished by your staff member?

Communication is the mirror to the reputation you represent… And reputation is to be guarded with life... You take years to build up your reputation, and it only takes one incident that takes away your credibility and ultimately, your client away...

What Is The Price You Are Willing To

Pay To Safeguard Your Reputation??

I have seen some emails transmitted from Multi-National Corporations to their clients and they certainly do not meet even the minimum requirement of Professional Communication, phone conversations amidst having a call center where everything is scripted also at times makes me wonder if they engaged a professional to prepare the tele-script!

Asians generally and Malaysians specifically do not demand the communication to be professional but when you are talking about being a nation that is thriving on globalization and being the hub for anything and everything under the sun, you have to start thinking on a global basis.

You don't have to be a million dollar company to portray the image of one, you don't have to be a celebrity to be professionally attended to by your service provider. It simply takes a shift in mindset and that will go a long way...

Realizing this fact, we at Plan B values communication above everything else, after all, it is our field of expertise as a renowned Public Relations firm and we would like to share our knowledge and forte of communication via Professional Communications Training (ProComm)... we will share the details on this training with you soon...

In the meantime, look around you and see how professional communication would make a difference in our daily lives, when a traffic policeman stops you and instead of treating you like a criminal who transports drugs after killing 3 people actually greets you by saying 'good morning...' Hmmmmm...

Datuk Shahrukh Khan... maa ehhhhh!!!

2008-10-12T09:47:00.000+08:00

Malaysia has done it again! The Malaysia Boleh spirit lives on folks. The latest feat is awarding a Bollywood Superstar with an esteemed honor that carries the title Datuk!

My dad, once said, throw a pebble on any KL street and it will land on a Dato's head! Well dad, 5 years down the road, throw a pebble on global landmarks and it might land on the head of another Dato! Sorry Dato' Jean Todt...

Honorific titles are meant to elevate one's status, a pride to be treasured and evident of one's contribution to mankind... But Malaysian honorific titles are accorded to those with the moolah to pay for it or be the king of shaky bom bom (Daud Kilau) and recently, anyone that gets minimum fortnight coverage on press or media...

The game of gaining popularity has apparently become the pursuit of popularity to those giving out the awards, the apparent attitude of 'saya lagi terrer (hebat)' has become the new agenda in giving out the awards.

'Dia bagi Jean Todt, dia tu bagi kat Michelle Yeoh tapi saya lagi terrer... saya bagi kat Shahrukh Khan haaaaa' and there will be 12 courts jesters laughing like hyenas in support to the decision!

With this popularity gesture, it is the nation's honor and pride that is tarnished. A medal or honor recipient should be proud of receiving the title, but receiving a title that is deemed to not hold any value results in disrespectful gesture by the recipient.

Do you honestly think Shahrukh Khan will be referred as Datuk Shahrukh Khan wherever he goes in the world now? Forget globally, even in his homeland India, he will not be referred as Datuk Shahrukh Khan!

What about honoring your host and receiving the award personally? I am not sure on this cause as I type this, approximately 8 hours ago, Shahrukh Khan was strutting his bolly stuff on stage in Singapore... But will he be here personally in Malacca to accept the honor adorned on him by one of Malaysian's ruler? Flip any press release and tell me if you see foreign media referring Jean Todt as Dato' Jean Todt?

The same personality would have given enough due respect should they be lucky enough to attain medal of honors that are regarded highly exclusive such as Knighthood from England, then you might just witness the re-branding of these personalities and they will forever be honoring the Orders of Chivalry- thus the name will be Sir Shahrukh Khan.

The Orders of Chivalry are granted to those deserving individuals, truly deserving individuals who has made significant contribution to the country, community and mankind in whole. The priority of granting this noble titles goes to British citizens... for more info, refer to website such as UK Honours System (http://www.honours.gov.uk/). It even lists the remarks on why this person was accorded with the noble title to ensure fair and justice to all.

In conclusion, it saddens me to see that we're witnessing a table where the stakes are country's honor and pride, the glitz and glam should be left to where it belongs- the showbiz and the silver screen. Let's look at rewarding the people who has made significant contribution to the country and to make the rewards truly exclusive and not a mockery...

A Romantic Encounter- The Moonlit Kiss

2008-10-11T07:30:00.000+08:00

What do I say to her? How do I look into her eyes? Will she be impressed with me? What will be the things she likes? Will she laugh at my jokes? These were the thoughts that were running thru my mind.

The nervous feeling was hunting me, after all, she is not just any common person, she's Orion, the girl who has been filling my thoughts when I am awake and has made numerous appearance in my dreams.

I have made all the necessary arrangements for the dinner, it has to be perfect, after all, this is our second date.

'So, I'll pick you up for dinner at 8PM?'

'Certainly, it'll be an awesome evening', she excitedly replied.

This made me more nervous thinking the expectations she might have. We had dinner and it was such a lovely evening, lovely because I had her company, an angel that descended from the heaven's above to be with a mortal like me.

''Why do you keep looking at me like that', she asked...

'Well, I was just wondering, what could be running thru your mind', I said as I kept my eyes on hers.

She kept her eyes locked on mine and took a step nearer, 'sometimes Nexus, you just have to stop wondering and let the moments unveil themselves'

Without further hesitation or thoughts, we inched closer, under the moonlit sky, the same moon that I have adored in admiration and where moments were envisioned... I held her closer to me and moved the strands of hair that was blowing and covering half of her silky smooth face.

'Have I ever told you that you have the loveliest pairs of eyes?' I asked softly as she gazed deeper into my eyes right to my soul.

She blushed slightly yet moved closer to me where I could feel her breath on my chest, obviously shy by my comment that could not have affected her on other moments this way.

With that moment in time, without further thought, our lips met... It was the most wonderful kiss that surpassed my envisioning of a remarkable kiss. The lips of hers felt as soft as the petal of rose with a light dew in the morning of February.

I lost track of time, and was lost in the world of my own, and it seemed that our lips couldn't part, the passion and the love was one with the universe and it was just us captured in that moment of passion, without lust but pure feelings from the heart.

I held her soft cheeks in the palm of my hands and I felt the happiest joy in my heart, the unexplainable feeling that is undefinable, only to be felt and experienced. It was moment of exuberance and elation.

For the first time, she held my hands close, as if never wanting to let it go. and the way she rested her head on my shoulders and the way she held my hands made me believe that this was the love that I was waiting for...

I dropped her at her house and we kissed... another passionate moment captured in time.

'Nexus, thank you for the lovely evening...' she had the most gorgeous smile...

I held her hands, 'it's my pleasure, truly my pleasure'...

I could've leaped with joy and be shouting with joy at the top of my lung but I had to hold my excitement, it will be pretty embarrassing to be showing my excitement which was so hard to contain...

Orion, if there is one wish I could have, is to be able to kiss your lips over and over again, to feel you near me and not have a sense of the whole universe, a world of our own where it is just you and me... You are my passion, my joy, my captivation that I adore and love...

Feet... Feet... Feet...

2008-10-09T10:58:00.000+08:00

gorgeous immaculate feet, with perfect pedicure, soft contour, perfect curvature and delicate flair is what I am looking for! and no, this is not an entry by a perv with foot fetish but this is a search for the perfect feet that deserve to slip on a JIMMY CHOO!!!

honestly, for the last two weeks, we've been hunting for the models that would showcase Jimmy Choo on our next fashion show, and though we have few finalized, the hunt for the perfect one is still on!

seriously, when you are dealing with a brand like Jimmy Choo, everything and I mean everything needs to be perfectly orchestrated and immaculately executed and some of the portfolios we got are just unbelievable!

some models give themselves way too much credit... and that's infinite truth about beauty I would say, you 'think' you are the queen of the world, when you are simply just a peasant, I am pissed, truly beyond words I am because of these people... why? with this mentality of being a queen, this category of models could have the cheek to confront me on MY decision?

yes, I would choose an ugly, disgusting men-feet and that would just give Plan B an added advantage and our clients will be happy? you're not even a real queen that I have to suck up to you and be nice... deal with it... if you think I am being bitchy (though I am NOT gay), wait till you deal with some of this 'queens'!

nevertheless, there are some fine models that I respect highly simply because they don't carry a queen-sy attitude, they know their shortcomings and I feel bad for actually not shortlisting them... they get my respect and admiration and certainly, I take the extra effort to see their strength and they will be my primary choice for following PR Campaigns, like one model who has the most amazing hair and another who has the most glittering eyes...

to the 'queens', till you don't rule a country or could actually buy 5 pairs of Jimmy Choo, please don't show me attitude or be bitchy with me, cause you might bark and scare your sugar-daddy but not scare someone like me, if I were to bite- you'd be in lotsa pain!!!

Plan B has a strong reputation to keep and we do not compromise with our promise to the clients that we will deliver them excellence and nothing below that, and no one, I mean no one could come and shake the foundation that we have built, our resolve is strong and we will stand paramount!

Kal Ho Naa Ho Diary Scene- with English subtitles...

2008-10-06T08:27:00.000+08:00

I recently posted Top 10 Romantic Bollywood Movies and Jessica requested a translation on the #1 movie on my list... so there you go, this is crafted specially for you and the subtitle is not poetic in sense but the nearest translation i can do in order to time it perfectly... so enjoy and hope you like it ;)

This movie is also the favourite of my closest buddy and brother Terence and I know he'd be appreciating this too....

diary scene- english subtitles

Top 10 Romantic Bollywood Movies

2008-10-05T10:32:00.000+08:00

Bollywood has always held the ability to create magic on the silver screen. To evoke emotions and bring the sweetest memories to live for viewers... I've compiled the list of Top 10 Romantic Bollywood movies that has captivated audiences worldwide, brought them to smile and at some moments, to tears...

#10- Mujhse Shaadi Karogi

Though revolving more on romantic comedy genre, this movie is certainly entertaining yet at certain moments depicts love to be fun filled and good natured. The witty characters and mishaps proves that it's not easy pursuing the love of your life...

wicked Sunny!!!

#9- Salaam-E-Ishq

The storyline depicts the love life of 6 couples... every couple facing different challenges of love... various issues such as commitment, devotion, unanswered love and more are placed on reel for audience's to ponder and reflect upon.

6 different couples- 12 different lives- 6 different worlds- 1 common problem: Love

#8- Guru

It's true what they say, having the right partner in your life could bring you to greatest of heights- amidst adversity and challenging times, it is a life partner that could be counted upon. When the whole world turn's its back on you, this person would emerge from the crowd to be by your side...

#7- Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham

Though revolving in the common genre of rich and poor in India, the storyboard is filled with heart-warming moments that every son, brother, father or a husband could relate to. To love with all heart and not spare it for any reason...

tribute to some of the most memorable moments

#6- Om Shanti Om

Musical in Hindi? We thought they were all musicals??? Well, there is a slight twist to the musical version of hindi but nevertheless, it speaks of love that lasts a lifetime and that the bond of love remains in your future life...

a scene giving the essence of Law of Attraction

#5- Chalte Chalte

This has been my favourite all-time movie, the pursuit of love to the unimaginable extent and doing all you can to win the heart of the one you love so that you don't say 'i wish' to yourself... and then facing the real-life obstacles of love where trust, faith and loyalty comes into play... and realising that amidst all the problems, you can't live without the other person and wouldn't want to be without the other...

Chalte Chalte- Trailer

#4- Veer Zaara

What would you sacrifice to safeguard the honor and integrity of the one you love? How much do you love someone that you willingly let go of life, so that the other could live? Would you go on loving someone so selflessly knowing that they don't even know that you are giving the greatest of sacrifice for them? In times where love is based on things we do for each other, Veer Zaara depicts the best in loving someone unconditionally...

The Bridge Scene

#3- Devdas

If there is someone you love entirely with all your heart and soul, how far would you go to gain them, what would you do in order to not lose that one soul that means the world to you? What would be your end if you live life without that person? Devdas is a remake of a classic with the same title and depicts the life of a man who lost the person he loves wholeheartedly...

#2- Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna

The movie starts with one fundamental question that brings forth the unfolding events- 'what would you do if you find the love of your life after you're married (to someone else)?' For the first time, the critically acclaimed producer-director brings a taboo topic to the silver screen that touches the life of many... between decisions and consequences... for what may seem so wrong yet feels so right when two hearts meet...

The confession of Dev's love for Maya

#1- Kal Ho Naa Ho

This movie speaks of love that is unexplainable in words, to love someone so much that you leave a love for that person... simply because you want to see that one soul happy, to love a lifetime and even after that, to cherish and treasure that one person to the end of one's life... Love that one person wholeheartedly as long as your heart beats, tell that one soulmate that the heart beats because of her, treasure and love her unconditionally and wholeheartedly... you'll never know if tomorrow might be or not be...

The diary reading scene

So there you go, the Top 10 Romantic Bollywood movies... do share your opinion and if there is any movie you feel that should've been listed, do let me know... I could've missed a wonderful movie and not even know it... till next time...

p.s. i love you Jaan...

Return to Facebook V1- An Experiment

2008-09-16T05:00:00.000+08:00

As I write this, I am still able to return to Old Facebook via clicking the link on the top right handside. I am not a tech-geek of any sort but my sweetheart has been complaining of the new facebook and being helpless to her is something I can't live with! So the tech team consisting of Sean, Eric, Lyna, Xke and Natelie got together to find ways that might work.. Thank you Buveni for sending the additional methodology via message...

This is an experiment and has worked fine for some of our friends who does NOT have the option to 'BACK TO OLD FACEBOOK'.. so here's a step-by-step guide for you to participate in the experiment:

STEP 1:

STEP 2: The Experiment

Here's where we would ascertain if our experiment does work:

Option 1

- click http://apps.new.facebook.com/?fbnew_opt_out=1

Option 2

- Facebook built-in applications such as Photo, Video etc

- On the upload page, you would find the 'Back to Old Facebook' button still active

- At trial time, the photo upload page is not usable but you may go to this link http://vupload.new.facebook.com/video/

- click on Back to Old Facebook button!!!

Option 3

- click http://www.new.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fapps.new.facebook.com%2F%3Ffbnew_opt_out%3D1&h=f68a1e1d82018d09180a65b3a1acb78b

- You would see "You are about to leave Facebook to visit this address:"

- click Continue/Confirm (depending on browser)

STEP 3

- Go merry, poke, comment, write on walls and enjoy facebook the way we all love it!!!

- Be gracious and leave a comment on this blogpost if it does work!!!

- If you're in Public Relations/Marketing/Events/Modeling industry, you are someone I'd like to establish contact with, add me up via facebook at http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=688423736&ref=ts or search by user name: Nexus Khan

Charlie says it doesn't work!!!

Fret not Charlie, try installing Facebook Developers Application http://www.facebook.com/apps/application.php?id=2345053339 and try STEP 1

Monica & Rachel says even THAT doesn't work!!!

Well ladies, I am sorry to say this but you have PERMANENTLY moved to the New Facebook and start getting used to it babes... to the rest, Facebook might just move the platform and disable access permanently after full migration of all accounts so this is also a temporary solutions but let's enjoy it while it lasts...

I wish I could do more for you baby but I hope it does bring a smile to your face which will be all worthwhile...

Muslims? or Simply Choice-Driven Morons???

2008-08-22T20:43:00.000+08:00

Yeap, a long time of silence from the one who speaks rather a lot... Simply put, lots of thoughts are yet to be placed in words but had to put this one up, can't wait no more! After all, the topic below dawn upon us pretty soon, Ramadhan (puasa month)

I've been in the community where couples are being arrested (tangkap basah) when they are together, you could be fined for not fasting during the Ramadhan but you could walk away from all this sins, if you pay the fine! Or if you get them horny bastards, give them a sneak peek of what you were enjoying and religion is suddenly out of the question!

It irks me that this are things that are purely based on their choice, not what is inscribed on the Holy Quran. It is the mediocrity of one's mind and choosing the factors that determine their judgement on what is wrong and to be acted upon, simply put, the given choice to act purely based on what they want and not what the religion constitutes.

Take this for an example, a man who says that five times prayer is a must, fasts during the month of Ramadhan but at the same time gawks at women and worst still, approaches her when he knows that she is a wife of another man! Oh where does the religious teaching of yours go then my friend? Or the mere fact of being allowed to have 4 wives is suddenly taken into account?

This moronic creatures harps on their apparently given right to have 4 wives, but providing for even one is a challenge and they pursue more than one wife? Where does the religious requirement of providing the livelihood of the lady you marry goes then? Up yours perhaps???

Islam is a great religion but this dimbwits plays it to their fancy and bring such a tarnishing reputation to the religion itself, they who speaks of jihad and commits murder are not spared from this allegation. If you really want to carry out jihad, emerge victorious in technology/economy and not by being the barbaric gun wielding murderers.

I am sharing this from my recent encounter with one man who claims himself as a 'true' Muslim who can't even hold his debate with a Caucasian man who is a Pastor in a church and respects the muslim religion after studying it thoroughly and understanding the fundamentals of the religion. Men like Father J***** makes us proud of the religion we are in and makes us accord them the same amount of respect and honor.

Be a Muslim that is admirable or be non-existence rather than being a fool that tarnishes the religion.

Son of Man

2008-06-05T22:32:00.000+08:00

The Son of Man (French: Le fils de l'homme) is a 1964 painting by the Belgian surrealist painter René Magritte.

Magritte painted it as a self-portrait. The painting consists of a man in a suit and a bowler hat standing in front of a small wall, beyond which is the sea and a cloudy sky. The man's face is largely obscured by a hovering green apple. However, the man's left eye can be seen peeking over the edge of the apple.

The name "Son of Man" is believed to have derived from the Abrahamic creation story. The modern businessman is the son of Adam, and the apple represents temptation (with which one is still faced in the modern world).

About the painting Magritte said,

At least it hides the face partly. Well, so you have the apparent face, the apple, hiding the visible but hidden, the face of the person. It's something that happens constantly. Everything we see hides another thing, we always want to see what is hidden by what we see. There is an interest in that which is hidden and which the visible does not show us. This interest can take the form of a quite intense feeling, a sort of conflict, one might say, between the visible that is hidden and the visible that is present.

The Son of Man should not be confused with The Great War on Facades (La Grande Guerre Façades), another Magritte painting featuring similar imagery. Both feature a person standing in front of a wall overlooking the sea. The Great War on Facades, however, features a woman holding an umbrella, her face covered by a flower. The painting should also not be confused with Man in the Bowler Hat, a similar painting where the man's face is obscured by a bird rather than an apple.

The Son of Man is privately owned.

A Romantic Encounter- The Diva's Audience

2008-05-12T11:56:00.000+08:00

She descended the staircase artfully; her red designer dress was a masterpiece of fabric, probably D&G looking at the folds of fabric on the dress. She wasn’t as tall as I expected her to be, behind her, two security personnel were keeping a watchful eye on the crowd, just in case.

The resort she stayed in was top of the class in this island, where only the elites come for holiday, so the risk of her having fans thronging the venue would be out of question, especially with the mere fact that her visit to Penang was not publicized in the media, unlike her KL visit.

‘Ms Khan’, I smiled and extended her my hand. Felt rather awkward as my ears are so used to hearing Mr Khan.

‘It’s a pleasure to meet you Nexus, and please refer to me as Safya or we will be calling out the same surname with the alternate of miss and mister’, she flashed her million dollar smile and put me to ease.

We got acquainted during our walk to the dining hall. The unique fact about Safya, being a superstar, she was extremely casual. The way she walks, talks, laughs and jokes made me mistakably wonder if I actually have known her for years. There was no pressure to impress or pretend to be someone else, I was naturally myself.

We reached the dining hall and took a seat by the window overlooking the luscious garden. A separate table was set for her security personnel and when one of the guys advised her that the distance was rather far, she laughingly asked him if I looked like a guy who’d kill her?

It just amazed me on how she dodges the comment misconception of a superstar, ‘I’m curious to know this…’

‘What is it?’ she asked

‘You know, throughout my years of dealing with celebrities, I have seen celebrities who gives themselves way too much credit and pretends like they’re God’s gift to mankind. I mean, cross the border of into Thailand or Singapore and they’re not even a familiar name but here in home country they think they’re one-level-below-God! While you on the other hand, just amaze me, so what’s up with that?’

‘Nexus, being a celebrity doesn’t make me any better than anyone else, yes I might have fans and all, but it doesn’t grant me the right to behave in such a manner, besides, it’s all about the upbringing, my dad brought us up with different virtues and principles. There are many others out there who are doing much greater things in life and they’re often forgotten, people like doctors who saves lives or soldiers who sacrifice their lives defending the country, they are the heroes’.

With that sentence, she gained my respect. A person who has a character of her own, she does not sway or pretend to be someone else to proof her worth. It takes much more than virtues to be humble amidst the grandeur life throw your way.

During dinner, we spoke for hours and the more I got to know Safya, the more I was wanting to get the account, not for the business but for the opportunity to represent someone like her would actually be an honor.

‘What made you want to consider Plan B’, I had to know this.

‘You might not believe this, but it’s because of you’

‘Me?’ she was right when she assumed that I won’t believe it.

‘Yes! I read your interview and there was a portion that you mentioned that Plan B is a passion, not merely a company but a driving force of your life. The big names in the industry might have all the expertise in the world, but they operate as a company, without the passion. I need someone who doesn’t take his job as a job, but as a part of his life’, she smiled knowing that I was still in shock.

‘Wow’ was all I could say as I found myself speechless. It was a proud moment for me.

‘Hmmm, would that entitle me to a special discount if Plan B becomes my official publicist for Asia?’ she laughed while making way for the waitress to fill her glass.

‘We might consider that but on the other hand, you believe in helping the needy right?’

‘Oh please, I did my homework too Nexus and you don’t fall into that category’, she sliced her meal in smaller pieces and winked as she took her first bite… ‘ummm, delicious!’

The rest of the evening was filled with so much laughter that I could safely say that we really did get acquainted. It was her sense of humor that amazed me, and her energy was reflected in her conversation and body gestures.

‘Oooohhh, dessert time!’ she clutched her hands together and delightfully awaited the waitress to set her plate down and thanked the waitress.

‘You love dessert don’t you?’

‘Of course, who doesn’t?’

‘So I presume you love chocolates?’ I asked her

‘Oh yes, especially LeFregu Checo, they are to-die-for!’ she exclaimed.

‘Hmm, what about Godiva?’

‘They’re good, but Godiva has this bitter after-taste that lingers on’

‘A diva who’s a chocolate connoisseur, that’s rare’

‘A girl who simply loves chocolates, that’s not that rare though’ she scooped her dessert and the joy was reflected in her eyes.

After much persuasion for her to have a second helping of dessert and she insisting that she needs to watch her weight, we ended our dinner meeting and I walked her back to the grand stairs.

‘It was truly a pleasure meeting you Nexus’

‘The honor’s mine ma’am and I look forward to hearing from you’

‘Certainly, it’s not always that I have the opportunity to dine with someone who could handle my antics’, she said as she leaned in for a casual hug and we parted.

Driving back, I was wondering if Plan B will be her pick for official publicist but simply knowing her personally made all the difference. I was planning to impress her but on the other hand, I was enlisted into her ever-growing fan list.

I called Orion and shared my experience. Every element of her character was awe-inspiring and I consider myself truly fortunate to have been her audience. A diva that enchants and mesmerizes, that’s Safya Khan.

The last 30 days of my life...

2008-05-08T09:25:00.000+08:00

Recently, my best buddy was hospitalized. Apparently, he fainted and the clinic he visited to referred him for further check-up to a specialist. Me, being the mean soul I have always been, joked with him that he really is living Kal Ho Na Ho etc. I am mean I know but he knows too that I'd never wish for it to be reality.

At the end of the day, Terence stopped in his track after our visit and we talked bout life and it's journey, and he being the philosophical person, posed to us this simple question, 'what would you do if you have 30 days to live?'

Phenomenal as it may be, the thought was certainly inscribed in my mind. It couldn't have struck me at that moment, but the drive back last night was filled with that question.

Firstly, rather than being sorry and sorrowful, I'd consider myself lucky, most people meet the angel of death without a predetermined appointment and that is worst, others would have to deal with a traumatic experience such as terminal illness that gives you months and those who feel sorry for you start wondering, 'when will this end?' So having 30 days is not at all that bad. What would I do? Hmmm....

Firstly, I'd want to spend time with my family, dad and mum, preferably, I wouldn't want them to know but if there's no choice, I rather make for all the losses, till today, my dad still complains that I don't take the time to spend 5 minutes with them. So dad and mum, my time would be for you.

Secondly, my boys, Ariff, Farid and Ajju, you guys are more of friends than nephews, we had some greatest craziest moments... so in those last 30 days, we shall fill our evenings (as many as we can) with Winning Eleven on PS2 and this time round, I'd like to request Farid to have some compassion and not kick my a** that badly!

Friends... my camaraderie, my amigos y senoritas!!! Many friends but here's an ode to the fine men and women who makes Nexus life truly a worthwhile one, in no particular order coz we're all of different bodies but one mind and soul.

iMan, Terence, David, Mel, Lisha and Captain Salem you guys are the closest in my circle of friends, the people that I deal with on nearly-daily basis, not only do we meet at least 5 times a week, we could be hanging out the whole day and would still be chatting online at night or on the phone catching up on the tragedies we missed to share hehe... you guys are truly the gem of my life and I wouldn't know how best I could spend my last 30 days with you coz if I have it my way, I'd wanna haunt you guys... payback for sharing with me horror stories!!!

This also goes to other friends and business contacts whom I have known for years and this would be a very long blog full with list of names if I start rolling out but you guys know well who you are. You have stepped in my life bringing the best of moments and I am blessed to have your friendship... Especially Joanna, Ruthy, Lai, Mike, Lai Chi, Mei, and Bryan...

As I was sharing this with a friend today over the phone, she asked me, why isn't there a mention of the one I love? For the first time after a long time, I was able define it in the most sensible manner- every one of my relationships is a journey of self-sabotage that inevitably ends in a black vacuum of shattered expectations and despair..

As melodramatic this may seem, it made me realise how much everyone I deal with in life means to me, from bridging of alliance, to building synergies, teaching me life experiences, the meaning of love- the tortures of love, about faith, trust and living life itself.

The only regret I would have is not having my Bayerische Motoren Werke (BMW) 530i and a son whose name is Mikail Khan to carry on the destiny, but I believe God would've had his own reason for not allowing so. It's not the name that you left behind that matters, but the legacy you build that counts...

P.S. This is still an expressive writing and in reality, I still have one client concept brief to complete, so no more ranting on but work awaits, and if it happens to really be my last 30 days, the helm of Plan B shall be held by my capable partner, Lisha and I am sure you'd bring it to the level we envisioned it to be... may God be witchu!!!

Benggali and marriages

2008-05-02T04:56:00.000+08:00

Benggali, as we in Malaysia fondly refer to them who are of punjabi descent or northern region of india... basically, if it's slightly lighter on the dermo-scale, they're benggali... though in actuality benggali is the term the british used to refer their soldiers from the bengal bay area, but let's stick with the malaysian terminology...

So benggalis, a unique race that thrives amidst diversity, usually business owners, predominantly textile... but their younger breed consist of lawyers (sup Karpal?) and other reknowned professions such as politicians (sup Karpal again?)...

Bout the earlier generation of benggali, even if that person is the richest man or the most reknowned figure, the actual measure somehow is weighed on a scale where their children is on the other end of the scale... and specifically this question... 'are my children married when they are above 23?'

If the answer to above is no, that dude has failed in life... laugh it off guys, especially you T... but my other benggali frens would nod their head, some would sheepishly smile, some will go like 'i feel ya man'!!! Iman, bila mau kawin?

So it's not rare that on every occassion, where the benggalis converge, they have this radar that detects the unmarried guy or gal, and the job of senior benggalis is to ask them 'when r u getting married?'... u get what i'm sayin? it's like passing a landmine, they stop you, you say hi... they go like 'son, when r u getting married?'

i mean lady, when did my dad get notty with ya that u can call me son? funny aint it? u notty notty aunty... DAD!! you bad bad boy!!! ok that was crude but hei, if you see me once or twice in ur lifetime, you call me son? it's not the mat salleh son... it's the oh-i-gave-u-birth SON!!! pls save it for ur own child tht's been humping even a lamp-post if i put a skirt around it... no seriously... iman, stop laughing like a hyena, we won't wanna let them know who we're talking bout from far far away ain't it...

so today, we went for a function in ipoh, where them benggalis converged and as usual the radar was ever present, but this time round, dad's overseas so he won't gimme the awful stare like i'm-a-freakin-failure and ur attitude disgrace me!!! i disown u hahaha!!!

what did nexus do, he came up with some stealth mechanism... benggali frens, flip open your journals, they might come in handy... imaaannnnn, for God's sake dun use them on my own dad yaar!!!! you and t, and everyone else has to continue dealing with his 'bila mau kawin?' instead of hello...

step 1, avoid eye contact at all times, walk thru if necessary, the moment u shake their hands, dun disrespect by not looking at them but as soon as u see them about to talk, look to the other person and say 'hello'... continue till the last one...

if sangkut (stuck), just smile and say, uncle the day i am getting married, you will be first to know... and they will usually have their follow-up line, this calls for quick kill deployment:
1- ohhh... i wish you had a daughter and i would've brought my entourage to you? (avoid using this if they do have daughter or grand-daughters, unless of coz if it's the gal you've been wanting all ur life la... aiyo!!!)
2- what can i do? i already put a billboard but no answer
3- gals are fine but i kinda like achaa khaSAA punjabi munda (this mite get me blacklisted for life, do i look like i care?)
4- hotel weddings are so expensive, will need at least 45k, can i get bout 10k from you plssssss...

if all this fails, my best escape route is my nephew suddenly whispering in my ears something and i just inch away slowly and scoot or if they are nowhere in sight to see my distress signal, fake a phone call.... ah, the beauty of mobile connectivity.

So there you go fellas, chinaman (david) stop laughing, and benggalis, all the best in ur stealth mode... Godspeed and good luck, i'm just gonna lean back on my recliner today and watch Jab We Met (in 5 minutes woohooo)... alvida aur khuda hafiz!!!!

An Inconvenient Truth

2008-04-30T02:41:00.000+08:00

Plan B supports Al Gore's An Inconvenient Truth and take a glimpse of Children Against Global Warming campaign for corporations... visit www.planb.com.my/earth

A Romantic Encounter- Diva's Insignia

2008-04-25T11:28:00.000+08:00

I stepped in the office on Tuesday morning with excitement, the joy of discovery. On my mahogany desk, lies a portfolio in velvet sleeve. On the cover, was the insignia- Safya Khan. The research on the diva was completed by the team and it is up to me now, to make the perfect pitch and get the deal signed.

The sensational diva, the adoration of many around the world, women wants to be her, men wants their women to be like her. She is becoming the icon for the modern women. It's not her beauty that makes her such, it is her character. The way her eyes glitter whenever she smiles.

As I flipped thru Safya's profile, I was evolving into her fan myself. I did not realize the hours passing by in reading the research the team has prepared. It was either a work of a great research team or maybe it was the research subject that was entirely exciting, it was the latter in my case.

She comes from a well to-do industrialist family, her father was the paramount figure in the revolution of IT in the States. A man with strong principles and business acumen, he deserved it due to hard work and sheer determination, he was at one point, Top 30 CEOs to look-out for according to Fortune. Right now, he enjoys a cozy retirement that is the envy of many.

The strong foundation was not only used in his daily business life, but was reflected even strongly in the way of the family. Academic success was paramount in the family, his children are trained and molded into future corporate leaders or professional. Being at the pinnacle of success, he is very humble and that reflects in his upbringing of the children, no matter who you are, always be modest and simple, that is his advise among many others.

So it doesn't surprise me that media accords Safya Khan to Shakira. Safya is not just a lady who is pretty, she is intelligent. If she were to engage Plan B, the first campaign would be to determine her IQ level, who knows, she might be a mirror of Shakira, the lady with the IQ that matches Einstein.

Where most men fears dealing with intelligent lady, years of experience has actually made me more comfortable with a lady that can talk intelligently, i would rather hear a lady's perspective on issues that affects the world than having a Barbie doll that sits in front of me and mentions her greatest adventure of the day was purchasing her new LV bag.

Interviewers never tirelessly ask her on her character of being extremely modest amidst the stardom, she has everything that life has to offer and being signed up by the giants of the music industry, she has the world at her feet! Yet, she never misused that privileges accorded to her.

She even preferred traveling on economy class till the incident in year 2005 where a stalker took the same flight with her and freaked her out by confessing his love to her in a disturbing manner. The private jet is only used for traveling into remote continents when she is on her UNICEF missions.

That too, she does not travel alone but carries with her the finest team of doctors and specialists to provide medical assistance to people in remote areas. One day, she aims to have a hospital that treats the poor for free and it will be having some of the finest doctors under the payroll.

I was filled with awe, speechless at times reading about Safya. I am not even going to mention her beauty, the face of Tag Heuer and Loreal for year 2007. Her eyes are truly seductive and yet captivating and her smile is truly enchanting. She's photogenic and every photo-shoot of her makes the photographers love their job.

"Nexus, Mr Mark is here for the concept brief", Marie paged in as I was about to finish the discovery of Safya.

I'm prepared to meet this enchanting lady known as Safya Khan on Friday. Even if my pitch doesn't go thru, the opportunity to have dinner with her is certainly once-in-a-lifetime and it will be worth just spending those few moments with a truly smart, gorgeous and extraordinary...

A Romantic Encounter: The Diva

2008-04-19T10:48:00.000+08:00

Marie stepped in hurriedly into the office, 'you are not going to believe who just called to fix an appointment with you'.

'Hmmm, The POTUS?' the sheepish smile planted on my face.

Marie has been astonished with my transformation, apparently she told my partner that I am much calmer now no matter what the circumstances are, she used to 'fear' the sight of me, but now, she flashes a wide smile upon seeing me every morning. Orion was right perhaps, by being calm, things just flow in the right direction, it's all about how one reacts to the situation.

'Even if your campaign doesn't go well, throwing your phone out of the window is not going to make the situation any better, unless of course purchasing a new phone you've been eyeing is a blessing in disguise', her words were always accompanied with sarcasm at times, but it's just me who feels that way...

'It was the PA of Safya, she wants you to pitch for her publicity blitz in Asia. SHE wants Plan B!', the excitement in Marie was reflected in her nearly shrieking voice.

'You've got to be kidding me'

'NO, I AM NOT!', loud and clear.

'Ok ok... when does she want to meet?' I asked in anticipation.

'Her flight touches down on Thursday, she's staying at Shangri-La till Sunday, she wants to meet you on Friday for dinner, the pitch will be a casual one during the course of dinner and she will decide by Sunday'. Marie outlined everything she jotted down in her blue portfolio.

'All right then, i want to know everything about her, what she likes? what she eats? what she drinks? any pets? does she fight for any cause? what she likes to do in her free time? does she smoke? what's her hot buttons? how many siblings she has? what's her sports? is she into golf? anything, everything that relates to her goes into the profile, roger?'

'Roger that chief, the team will work on it priority primo and by Tuesday, it will be on your desk', Marie assured me and moved out of the office.

First rule of bonding, communicate on things the person likes, and it will be a breeze. Safya, the diva extraordinare and being her audience is something every man envisions, but not many realize. Dubbed as 'Shakira' of Asia, she tantalizes and mesmerizes her ever growing fan base.

I was wondering, what could have gotten this Diva to engage Plan B? International PR firms are eyeing for her account since she announced her intention of doing an Asian Tour. I 'd her, I can't wait till the profile is ready for me to know her, the anticipation was killing me.

Safya Khan, born in US but strongly held to her heritage of Asia, her first album (Sharara) did not do well in US but was a major hit for Asia. Her first single ranked Number 1 for 3 consecutive weeks for MTV Asia. Her popularity in Asia was tremendous and that grew her fan base in US.

Her second album (Shades of Love) was crafted to fulfill the demand of her fans in states. A dual-language album that got her major publicity and from then on, she has never looked back, soaring higher and being among the stars.

Numerous albums and with every album, her fan base grows, it is an infinite collection, a cult-like emergence. There's not one award that she has not been nominated, and 80% of nomination adds to her collection of awards. Among the Top 20 highest paid celebrities, she is not a force to reckon with.

Interviews with Late Night Shows, Oprah, a regular face on MTV and Channel V, currently under the contract of BMG and everyone that have been fortunate to meet her says 'she's down-to-earth'. How could one be with such an accolade and achievement? it's impossible, at this time, i felt truly intimated, if reading can cause me this, what will be when i meet her, will i even be able to pitch, oh I'm in a ditch!

I leaned back on my chair. As usual, my mind running Vision Trailer. My common act before any major pitch, nothing is left to chances, if you experienced it, it was already orchestrated in my mind way before. Some say it's a gift, while i think of it as a curse as I always tend to envision the worst-case scenarios.

Whatever it may be, it will be an encounter worth remembering... till Tuesday, I shall await to 'know' Safya- The Diva...

What Women Want?

2008-04-09T14:49:00.000+08:00

As I hang up a phone call today, I declared to myself, '28 freakin years of my life, and I still can't figure out WHAT WOMEN WANT!!!' I thought it was just me amidst countless women I've met in life, every type of woman you could imagine. So I called iMan, and asked him the same thing- the answer he gave (knowing him) does not warrant publishing but he then asked a guy who's 30 plus AND married, even that dude was clueless! So it's not just me!

So tell me, what exactly do women want? When a guy is extremely caring, she says he thinks she's weak, when he doesn't, he doesn't love her... when he dresses up, she says he's trying to attract another gal, when he doesn't, she says he doesnt care bout looking good being with her. When he calls, he's annoying, when he doesn't, he's forgotten her... When he holds her hand, he's controlling, when he doesn't, he must be having an affair... I mean blow the bejesus out of me but I give up!

At one time, women says it's bout having the guy in your life that cares for you, some dude walks thousand miles like that song and nope, the day he tells her he loves her, she says... I thought you weren't serious and leaves him hanging! Then some gals says it's chemistry, heck- even that doesn't come to a clear explanation! Chemist anyone?

So I did the only rational thing of asking women, the result? Astonishing and amazing! Even woman can't define what they want! Frankly like the gal that whispers to the slightly retard dude in P.S. I Love You that even woman don't know what they want is probably true!

Then just as I was typing this, I had the opportunity of catching Doc online, she's sensible, smart, brilliant and witty... my last hope to seek the answer that's been bugging me. What she said was a revelation of sort, placed just in the right perspective. So guys, are you ready?

Simply put, woman want to be understood! Put down the beer glass and let me see how many of you actually did read 'Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus'? This book outlines the core principle on how men and women see things completely differently! She even ended by saying that it's not bad book, but men won't read it so no point women reading it...

It's all about different ideology from the beginning, ask any women and she'll say she don't understand men, things they like, we don't like, when they say don't do it, we purposely wanna defy and do it! It is not the first time someone says that men are complicated and confused so it's no surprise they can't understand women coz they don't understand themselves? Get it... no? Complicated rite? Ethiological Therapy- Treat The Cause and The Problem Will Go By Itself!

It's 6.40 AM and I gotta head out to kick off my day, but let's make a pledge that you will take one day, one moment in time, where you seriously take the effort to understand the person you're in relationship with. It doesn't matter if she doesn't, it doesn't matter if she never cared to know about you. Think of it this way, the day you do understand her, you'll be avoiding a whole lot of other issues, which will in turn bring the relationship to a great level and she will certainly reciprocate.

Sometimes it's about going to the root cause of the problem and flourishing trees are a result of healthy, strong foundation of the root! Do you rather let it slide and wilt away or do you want to be the foundation itself? Choice is yours!

Strength of A Woman

2008-04-09T11:51:00.000+08:00

Ever heard the saying, ‘behind every successful man, there is a woman’? I say a**wipe! That is the most ridiculous, unbelievable, absurd statement! In reality, behind every successful man, there are many women making it happen for him.

From his mother that cares for him selflessly, the sister that looks after him, the teacher that gives him education to be a better man, the boss who guides him into the career world, the friend who shares tears with him, the girlfriend that makes him feel loved, the wife that stands by him thru thick and thin and for every moment of his life- someone that looks after him...

This note is not written for that men, because there is another underlying question that I pose to you today? Who is standing behind the woman? I am a man, and I deal with lots of men, and 80% of the men, do not turn back to the woman behind them and ask, ‘how are you today?’.

You see, mankind has evolved from stone-age, to witness the tyranny of the lords in the medieval times, to the super high-tech world we live in today, but men, unfortunately has not changed a single bit from the barbaric self they consider heroic!

Even a woman with career, still deals with household chores, children education, ensuring every moment that the house is a home, cook a meal that always has complains on, clean up after that and after all this is done, it is still not enough to stop the prick from complaining! Now some folks will say, they employ maids... I am not even going to waste my time explaining to people who have their brains divided into two cheeks of their butt... goddammit.

The next time you are sitting down at a bar, with your buddies, drinking the bubblys, checking out titties, thinking you’re the next hot thing who’s gonna bone it like the dog across the street humping the light pole AND complaining about the women who could probably be awake waiting for you at home, think of what I’ve said here and when you do get back home and God forbid if you’re not drunk like an animal and start behaving like one, at least say to the woman of your life- ‘thank you’... amidst being tired, she will smile knowing that she’s appreciated.

Gentlemen (it’s a deserving decree some are yet to attain), from the moment you read this, start being the man and not the beast, start being a partner and not an employer, start being a companion and not the parasite. Let her feel grateful by treating her like a lady deserved to be treated. If she can make you a successful man by standing behind you, imagine what you may achieve when she stands beside you?

As for me, I’d like to thank the fine women who has made an impact in my life some way or the other, I can’t personally thank each of them as they are way too many, but to one soul out there, thank you for being my strength, for picking me up when I am down, never failing to bring me a smile when you have tears of your own, for selflessly caring even when you have troubles of your own. Love, I will always be grateful to God above for your presence in my life- thank you...

Note: When I say men, it’s not all men, just about 80% and they are the ones who will be offended by this post...

A Romantic Encounter: The Perfect Pitch

2008-04-09T11:50:00.000+08:00

I walked the path of loneliness for a while, till I met Orion, her character is such, that one would find himself engrossed listening to her, from the way she talked about the recent election and it’s results. Sitting down with her and sipping the latte isn’t the common indulgence of coffee but more of an intellectual journey that I’d appreciate.

Throw a topic to Orion and she is a natural conversationalist, and to keep up with her pace, is rather a challenge for myself. Nevertheless, I enjoy every minute of these after-work latte sessions; let’s just say, as a publicist, conversations that drive thoughts are a blessing.

From my recent encounter of the shooting star, it is rather obvious that I am clueless on where this journey would lead; leaving it up to fate seems like the most logical thing to do. We have elevated our encounter to another level, where admiration of hers now includes her fascinating ideology.

‘I saw your pitch on Global Warming, and it is rather impressive, but it lacks the spirit in totality’, she said while looking straight into my eyes. That is her signature look when she’s on a serious topic.

‘I thought I sent it to you just before leaving the office, when did you read it?’ I was rather surprised as we both left office at the same time.

She retorted with a slight hint on my delay, ‘I work for the country’s premier mobile operator, all employees are bound by this little device called BlackBerry, and your 30 minutes delay was a great opportunity’.

‘So I was late, but you know how clients are, can’t blame me for the delay entirely’, I knew that would further aggravate her but I do enjoy her comebacks.

‘Blame it on the world Nexus, whereas an apology is certainly hard to come by’ she had that tinge on her nose when she’s angry.

‘I am sorry for the delay, but were you so anxious to see me?’, I eagerly awaited her response. She was about to answer immediately, and instead of answering, she smiled and asked if that was a trick question.

‘Does it sound like one?’

‘Perhaps it does’

‘Maybe it isn’t?’. I said while waving my arms.

‘I rather not take the risk’, she leaned forward, perhaps intimidating me with her eyes.

‘Or you are afraid of the answer itself that might lead to another question?’ I leaned forward, a sign that I am not intimidated.

‘I think... the coffee needs sugar’ she stood up, lifted her mug and took one step before stopping on her track, ‘maybe I was anxious, but you were still late’, she moved swiftly away before I could give my next comment.

Challenging, it’s her nature, quick comebacks, witty but at the end of the day, she leaves you guessing with her statements. So if she was anxious, and I was late, she wouldn’t have been too pleased, but if she still managed to smile and tease me, should I rather worry that it’s an indifference to her. I shouldn’t have asked the question, because now I am questioning myself all over again!

For the next hour, Orion shared on items that could make the whole pitch juicier. We brainstormed together to make the perfect pitch, one consultant that works to ensure Global Warming awareness is brought in as the new CSR effort, assisted by Corporate Affairs Manager, the pitch will be perfect!

It is amazing to see her in action, to morph into her role so perfectly that it seems flawless. Her ability to argue her points and drive home the message with such clarity is truly admirable.

At the end of the 3^rd hour, we were tired and all we could think of food, the hunger was unbearable. Final touch and final slide of summary was the achievement of the day.

‘Let’s grab dinner before calling it a day’,a casual invitation to her.

‘Sounds nice, I am so hungry, let’s go for Indian food’.

‘You sure you could handle it?’.

‘Just cause I am Chinese, doesn’t mean I can’t handle spicy food’, she knew the reason I was surprised.

‘Well, Ms Hot & Spicy, let’s see how much you could handle’.

I wonder how the dinner would turn out to be, it’s funny, cause I had a Chinese friend who just loved spicy food, and she even went authentic by eating with her hands, it was truly a sight! Orion, however, brought the inquisitive side of me, to see her rosy cheeks flush red!

A Romantic Encounter: The Shooting Star

2008-04-09T11:49:00.000+08:00

How do you define the sight of a shooting star, when you look up to the sky on a Thursday evening when you feel lonely? Do you make a wish, or do you consider it as an amazing phenomenal astronomical occurrence?

Nexus makes a wish, closes his eyes and envisions Orion’s presence in his life. He could say millions of things, he could write long poetries praising Orion’s beauty, he could write a lengthy story telling the world of how amazing Orion is. But no, tonight, he looks up to the passing star and makes a wish, a simple wish placed in words...

I love you Orion... I love you very very much, when I shut my eyes, I envision you and when I open my eyes, they thirst for the sight of you. I sense in you in my every awakening hour and even in my dreams when I am asleep.

I miss you badly when you are far away, I miss the smile you give when I look at you, I miss your laughter I hear when I tell a joke, I miss the moment when you look at me and don’t even say a thing, I miss your anger towards me when I argue with you, I miss the moment that you just hold my hand, I miss the moment you caress my cheeks softly, I miss... everything about you, all the time...

I wish that you were here by my side, looking up to the stars. I wish that you were mine. I wish that on your finger, there is a ring, a symbol of my eternal love for you. I wish that you would be the lady that stands by my side. I wish that you have a child by the name Mikail. I wish that in every happiness, in every joyful moment, in every sad sorrowful moment that come our way, for every emotion that could be felt by the heart, the moments are encountered with me.

I may not be the perfect man for you, no... there are countless others. What could be the measure of one’s love for another? For this heart of mine, beats with your presence in my life. I can’t promise you wealth of lifetime, but I can promise to be there for you when you call out for me. I promise to be the hand that holds out for you. I promise that even when you are 60, wrinkly and feeling miserable, I would still find you the most gorgeous angel I ever set my eyes upon, and you would see it in my eyes, the way you see it today.

I want you to be the lady I spend my life with, the person I grow old with, and if I am lucky enough, to blow my last breath looking into your beautiful eyes, that shines like the morning sun... I will love you for the rest of my life... till my last breath, and even after that... it is a wish, simple wish from the heart, no poetic words and simple rendition of the heart, that now belongs to you.

With the sound of the waves, Nexus looks up to the far horizon, inseparable between the flows of waves touching the sky. He knows it could never happen, it is impossible, it is unattainable, Orion’s heart does not beat the way his does. It was a shooting star, and the moment for a honest wish, there’s no harm in hope, but it hurts knowing the reality.

Like the shooting star that graces the night sky, the wish brings a smile to Nexus envisioning how it will be, but like the shooting star, that glides and passes by, so does the wish of Nexus and Orion. He picks himself up and walks the sandy earth into the dark pitch of the night... out of vision, out of sight...

A Romantic Encounter: Orion’s Love Epistle to Nexus

2008-04-09T11:48:00.000+08:00

I can only give you love that lasts forever and a promise to be near each time you call, and the only heart I own is for you alone. That’s all... that’s all...

I can only give you country walks in spring time and a hand to hold when leaves begin to fall, and love whose burning light will warm the winter night. That’s all... that’s all...

There are those I’m sure who have told you they would give you the world for a toy but all I have are these arms to enfold you and a love even time can’t destroy. If you are wondering what I am asking in return, you’ll be glad to know my demands are small. Say it’s me that you’ll adore for now and ever more. That’s all... that’s all...

I honestly tell you my darling, this heart belongs entirely and solely to you and my life is so colourful and complete with you in it. Never have I devoted and given myself to anyone entirely and I’m so willingly giving you all I possibly can, including this lifetime of mine.

My heart beats everyday for you so I can fulfil my destiny of being everything for you forever. Love will be defined by what we make it and the world will know no better combination than you and me. My sweetheart, love me for a lifetime.

I love the way you look at me, deep into my soul, where my feelings for you reside, intensely it loves you alone. I love the way you touch me, sweet and tender caresses. I love the way you speak to me, articulate and respectful, and in you every expression, I find countless reasons why I love you.

Please be with me forever, for this humble heart intends to love you and cherish you. Like no one has ever in the history of this earth. You got me begging you for mercy... why don’t you release me... Oh mercy mercy mercy.

A Romantic Encounter: The Immortal Eyes

2008-04-09T11:47:00.000+08:00

As I walked out onto the pathway, the sheer joy and anticipation was building deep inside, Orion awaits my arrival and was on the line talking, while walking on the direction facing away from me. I stood in my track just looking at the enchanting beauty, with her wavy hair flowing graciously, like the waves that touches the shores of a white sandy beach. Simply captivating.

‘If you keep walking away from me, I might just have to dine alone... ’, a simple statement I uttered. Like a gracious ballerina, Orion turned facing me, I can’t explain the feeling that was deep inside, as every step she took towards me, I was being mesmerized by her beauty.

This was a dinner, in replacement of the brunch that I could not make, a client’s commitment took the selfish moment away from me, for which I am grateful to Orion for accepting my dinner invitation.

‘You seem awfully silent, is everything ok?’, a question that I had to ask, as I caught her looking out the car window, could it be that she had a rough day? Could it be that she rather be elsewhere? Could it be something I said or did? ‘I’m fine, just that I am hungry, and I am like the hungry ghost, till I don’t get my food, I am rather cranky’. At that moment, I laughed at her humorous statement and all I wanted was to immediately reach the restaurant, and kept the conversation to the minimum.

I could remain silent, but there is no force in the world that was able to stop me from looking at her, at every opportunity, like every left turn the car had to make, I would want to catch a glimpse of Orion, the enchanting beauty that I envision at times of solitude.

‘Why do you keep looking at me like that?’, Orion asked after few obvious glances I gave her. Caught red handed, rather embarrassing. I shrugged the question with a humorous statement, if I could, I would have told her that the reason I kept looking at her was for the fact that the sight of hers makes me happy, I don’t know why, I don’t know how, but there is this ultimate sense of joy and happiness everytime I look at her. Every single movement of hers, like the left hand she raises to show a direction or the way her right hand twirls with her tresses. It is an undefined, unexplainable feeling, only to be felt.

The atmosphere lovely, the ambience great, but all that was immaterial as before me, sat Orion, who made every other beauty seem tarnished with her presence. In fact, all this beauty was fading away as I look at her, Orion was the incomparable beauty that night.

She has the eyes that fit the poetry of all times, fixated eyes, that shines as she laughs. Rarely have I met a woman who can look into my eyes as she speaks to me, who could keep the eye contact long enough that I could see myself in her eyes. She’s Orion, not any other mere woman, she’s a captivation in her form that could only be deciphered by the immortals, everlasting. In the language of the immortals, ‘Melin ceni hin lîn síla i 'eladhach’.

If moments were able to be captured, I would save every moment in time that she smiles, every moment in time that I am with her. For the sake of these moments, ‘could I have the honour to drive you to work?’, I asked. Orion looked surprised and kept saying that it is impossible for me as I am unfamiliar with the routes she takes as they are unvisited by me, an unchartered territory of mine.

To be in familiarity is what anyone is capable of doing, but she is worth every venture into the unexpected. Even if it was a journey that I do not return from, I would have gladly set upon for her, and I was thankful when she finally agreed.

‘I shall be here at 7.30AM’, I said as she stood in front of me, I took her hand and kissed them softly for the appreciation of a wonderful night and for the honour of her company. As Orion walked away on her path, she continued to bring a smile to my face with her charmful act of turning behind, glancing and walking away, repeatedly till she was out of sight.

Out of sight she might have been, but out of mind she could never be. I looked out the window into the pitch darkness of the night as I stay awake to drive her, I kept thinking of every single moment I spent with Orion, on how she made me feel, on how she makes me laugh, and how her smile brings warmth to my heart.

I never will know what she feels, as I lay sleepless, I wonder if I could have touched her heart even slightly like a feather blowing in the wind? Whether Orion could be smiling as she recalls the memories of the night, or does she even think about them as much as I do, or if she does at all?

The alarm took me away from glancing out my window, 6.45AM and I set upon the journey. What might be of this encounter, is not of my knowledge, but all I know, Orion is worth every step of the journey, for the fact that she is Orion...

A Romantic Encounter: Day of Surprises

2008-04-09T11:45:00.000+08:00

The next day started well, with memories from last night still fresh in my mind, often at times, you see me smiling to myself as I drive my car in the heavy traffic of the morning. Somewhere somehow, I knew the day’s going to be one of those days where everything just turns out right...

‘Good morning everybody!’, a thunderous morning greeting from the guy who usually steps right into his office and you could see his secretary trailing behind, knowing well to deliver bad news first so that she could step out safe and sound after delivering the good news.

‘Mr Nexus, your schedule for the day, and Mr Jack just called off the meeting today, and the ad campaign for Sony is ready, when do you want the team to brief you on it?’, the secretary just stood there awaiting response while Nexus looks out of his office window... ‘Mr Nexus?’ still awaiting answer... ‘Huh? Sorry Marie... call Mr Kung and see if he wants to meet up for Taipan ’09 instead and fix my time for Sony briefing at 4PM today and please get flowers delivered to Ms Orion of M****’.

‘Flowers Mr Nexus?’, asking to reconfirm, ‘Yeah, flowers... a bouquet of pink roses, no wait... make it purple roses’, ‘Ok sir, a dozen purple roses...’ Marie stops jotting down when she hears me speaking again. ‘On the other hand, make it orange roses, and get them delivered at 1.30PM’. The theory of rose colours and their meaning, red for love, pink for gratitude and appreciation, purple to signify love at first sight but that will be too much of a statement, safest route, orange- signifying desire.

I continue gazing out the window, it just seems that the whole world has stopped revolving, only one moment captured in my mind, the reflection of myself in her eyes, an everlasting moment. At some moments, I had to gaze away to avoid her feeling awkward, but it wasn’t a stare I gave... it is the look a man gives when he ardently admires a woman.

She steps in her office after lunch and a bouquet of orange roses greets her return to the office. She smiles, picks up the phone and dials Nexus. ‘Thank you for the lovely roses, they made my day’. Nexus could envision her smile, ‘how’d you know it was me? There’s no card attached to the bouquet’.

‘Intuition Nexus, and there’s no other person so obsessed with the official colour of Plan B, but you!’, she said while laughing. A proof that one should never outwit a smart lady. ‘Since there is no message, look out your window’, I momentarily paused to let her approach the window.

‘Oh my God!!! You’re crazy’, she yells as she saw outside, floating in mid air, a big helium balloon shaped in the form of a teddy bear with a simple message for her... Orion- 10Q 4 making me beary happy!

‘You’re out of your mind, this is unbelievable!’ she just couldn’t contain herself and for a moment I thought she was angry... Thank you so much, this is like... the most awesome, most outrageous, craziest and most of all, sweetest gesture’. ‘Phew... for a moment I thought you weren’t pleased at all’, I just couldn’t help but feel extremely relieved. ‘I love it! It really made my day! Thank you so very much dear’. I wished I was there, to look at her reaction, being delighted and happy.

‘I can’t thank you enough... there are no amount of words to explain how I feel’, a text message arrives shortly after I ended my conversation with her.

‘I know, I can’t explain the feeling I have hearing you so happy’...

‘How could I repay your sweet gesture?’

‘Well, monetary you can’t, but it’s Saturday tomorrow- brunch?’ an invitation, a very selfish one to spend time with her.

‘Love that!!!’

I smiled as I walked out of my office for lunch and thereafter, meetings that await! It’s going to be a long day ahead, with so many tasks ahead of me, but she is my refuge, where I find peace and tranquillity. I was pretty sure Mr Kung would be happy to know that Plan B’s commitments to him shall be met, after all, it’s been a great day, a day where everything falls into place...

Convergence of Mankind

2008-04-09T11:44:00.000+08:00

If you know me well enough, one fact would be distinguishable about me, 95% of my life revolves around a particular race in Malaysia. The race I speak off is certainly different than the race stated on my birth certificate.

I often get questioned, why do you hang out with a different race? Why them and not us? What is so great in girls from that race or the common classic one, why do you want to risk losing the ‘opportunities’.

I met with Giuliani’s Campaign Representative recently in regards to the Global Leaders Forum to be held in Singapore. The topic Giuliani will talk about will be on ‘convergence of mankind’. Simply touching on synergistic relationship between people and how it affects a socio-economy.

If you were to walk into NY City, you’d see people from every part of the world, forget just three main races, we’re talking about nationalities of vast difference. How many times do you hear the mayor saying in his speech, ‘we’re so fortunate and should be proud that we have different nationalities, race and religion in our city’. It’s never been mentioned, because the more you mention, the more you highlight it as a matter of concern, and human psychology dictates what is commanded.

I have been extremely fortunate to be part of a community that embraces me with no objection and I feel that I am a part of the family that does not make me feel even a bit uncomfortable. Because the Malaysian spirit lives in souls of countrymen and every citizen!

You have a choice to paint the portrait of our nation in colours that dazzles, but please ensure that as you create the masterpiece, you are colour blind!

A Romantic Encounter: The Date

2008-04-09T11:40:00.000+08:00

I stood in her walkway, accompanied by slight breeze of wind, the air was cold but I was nervous, waiting for Orion, every second that passes seems to be an eternity. What should I say? Where should I take her to? Where should we dine? Funny how a man would seem clueless on what to do when it involves moments that relate well to every beat of his heart.

The door opened, and she stepped out as if a princess descending her carriage, “you sight truly captivates me”, I leaned forward, was dying to kiss her, but decided to just let our cheeks meet and while looking into her eyes, handed her a stalk of rose. “Thank you, and captivation is the definition of the captive, for me it is a moment of joy” she replied, and I could see that her cheeks were flushed, she certainly do not need to apply blusher on her soft cheeks.

I drove slowly, just to ensure that she was comfortable and more so for the reason that I was not able to take my eyes off her, if I could paint a portrait, it will be a masterpiece envied by Da Vinci. Everytime I look at her, there is a feeling of content, a feeling that in unexplainable by words, I could never define, this is a sensation, a passion only to be felt.

“So other than sweeping someone off her feet, what do you do?”. “I run my own little firm that concentrates on Creative Marketing & Corporate Communications... Plan B” that sounded as if I was meeting a prospect client but I have just been so used to it. “Plan B?” she asked inquisitively. “Well, it was a name that conceptualised from the collaboration of three brains, it was my escape to freedom and Plan B sounded well with what I do, what do you do then?”. “I’m in the marketing division of M****. It dawned upon me; we’re so much alike as our professions are the same.

Sea was windy, but I had to thank God above, it was a full moon that night. We took a seat and amidst the soft light of QE2, we had the company of a full moon reflecting on a satin sheet of sea. “This is by far the loveliest scene one could have”, as her eyes reflected a marvel of beauty. “I totally agree with you on that”, and I was looking into her eyes. Orion leaned forward, and her fingers reached out my chin and pushed it softly towards my left, “I meant the scenery” as she gazed to the sea and winked.

With the soft music playing, Something Stupid, a song that was defining the moment itself. It is truly something stupid, yet willingly the heart does not adhere to the warnings. You just want to surrender and submit to the moment itself. Call it dreamland, call it Cloud 9, the feeling is just utterly enchanting and captivating.

“You know the moth?” I asked her as she sipped on her wine. “Yes, the little insect”. I pointed towards the candle that lit in the middle of the table “exactly, the moth that dances to the flame, knowing that it will burn him to ashes. It amazes me how he still dances to the flame”. “That is what you refer as devotion, a passion” as her little fingers imitated the dance of moth. Orion summed it up in few words that left me thinking how is it possible for a devotion to be filled with passion... that kills?

“Why does one willingly know that death may befall upon them and yet still continues with the passion?”, I had all the answers but I wanted to hear what Orion has to say. “Just like love, you know it hurts, you know there are times that you wish you never loved, but yet again, you love... you know that amidst the joy and happiness, there will be pain inflicted but above all there are moments that takes your breath away”. I was mesmerized by her voice and at the same time, uncovered the emotions that are deep within her.

“Have you ever been in love?”, she asked the question that I wish she never ask. “Who hasn’t? Yes, I have been in love. No, my love did not find a happy ending, else I won’t be here with you right now”. I decided not to recall the love story of mine that was filled with tragedies. I guess she sensed it and we talked about moments that would bring smile and laughter.

The drive back was filled with silent, I wondered if she was also deep in thought as I was. Here beside me, I have this lady that never fails to make me smile. Even the sight of her fills this heart with warmth, a feeling unexplainable.

This are the feelings that one feels from within, where you find even the smallest act of another person to be memorable. Where you could recall every moment of the encounter, like how she loves to move her fringe that falls in front of her eyes, or how she smiles when you tell her a joke.

“Thank you for a great evening”, she said while she stood in front of her doorway. “The honour and pleasure is certainly mine”, as I looked into her eyes, I inched closer and kissed her cheeks. I knew it was welcomed as she pushed her cheeks closer.

As I walked towards my car, I took a glance back and Orion had her door open, looking at me as I walk away as millions thoughts filled my mind, finding the answer to the feeling I have deep within me. It is just too soon, I know that and amidst this knowledge, I want to find answers. She waved goodbye and as her door closed, I knew the night will be a long one. Where I would sit beside my cup of coffee, sleepless it will be as I recall our date and her.

I look out of my window, and wonder if she is asleep. “Good night my angel, may the sweetest dreams accompany you”. As for me, I would not need the company of dreams, as I have you in my mind, like I always do...

She became ‘me’!

2008-04-09T11:33:00.000+08:00

Last Tuesday started like any other day, filled with things to do… amidst that, her sms came in, she needed to confess! Dropped everything and called her out for coffee, a friend here need to confess, nothing could be more important right… right?

Her first line blew me away, ‘when I look into the mirror, I see a reflection of you, I became you!’. Expected confession would be that she has feelings for me etc, the typical hapless romantic I am! But no, she meant the playa me, not the lovey me!

Hearing her encounter, I was like shocked, this is the same gal that told me how bad it is actually to be a playa and heart-breaker, how mean and evil I am to be having all this flings without attachment and commitment. After the shock, I laughed thinking how strongly she defended emotional love, the kind of love that I truly have lost faith on.

Now don’t come asking me if I am back to being a playa, in true media flash response, I would decline to comment further on the subject! The story here is about her, discovering her wild side and though guilty in the beginning, totally enjoying it now!

She has a man in her life, and now has a ‘friend of benefit’, and code of playa says, it doesn’t stop at one, so there’ll be more to come. My advise was simple, keep it below radar and reputation is at stake, but at the end of the day, dun give two hoots bout what anyone says, as long as she is happy and contented, that is all that matters!

People around us tend to come with lots of guidance to living life of saint coz they dun get it, thus all the reasons of why you shouldn’t be the devil! I mean c’mon, they could give advises of virtue and if Johnny Depp were to ask this same person, ‘would you spread?’ Bet the next question she’d be asking is ‘how wide?’

So spread the wings and fly babe, when you go to bed sad, wake up feeling sad in the morning and spend your day mourning, all for the non-taboo relationship, none of these people are there to comfort you and bring a smile. That being said, it doesn’t give them a single right to dictate your joy and happiness whichever way you find it!

P/S: nexus do not condone extramarital affairs, cheating, infidelity or affairs… he believes strongly in living life the way you want it, by your own decisions. At the end of the day, it is you who’d be there for you, be it good or bad!

A Romantic Encounter

2008-04-09T11:29:00.000+08:00

She was sitting 3 tables away, right in the direction of my eyes, with her hair flowing freely, wavy and the sunglasses tucked as hair band, she couldn’t stand them coming between her and her book while she took moments in between to sip her coffee, most probably a latte. Her expressions changes showing countless emotions as her brown eyes trail down the pages and she engulfs herself in the words placed within the books.

Her smile as angelic as ever, and when she comes to phrases crafted by the author to define sadness, I feel the urge to just make her smile, never should she be sad, her lips, should always hold a smile that is truly enchanting and captivating.

She had put on a black top, a black knee length skirt and a pair of heels, probably back from her office and decided to stop by for coffee like her everyday routine, knew that when the barista greeted her by her name.

Ralph… that is the perfume she had on, the wind was kind enough to bring me the scent that I could never go wrong with. The perfume that I adore and has countless memories associated to this particular scent.

She caught me looking at her, in normal circumstances I’d glance away, but I just smiled, never fearing that she might just look thru me. Her smile, framed in my mind, from that moment till now, probably a time to jump with joy. She continued flipping the pages of her book. This would be an opportunity for life and I never know if my eyes would ever get the opportunity to see this angel again. I rose from my chair and every step towards her seemed a journey of a mile.

“I hate it when people just never seem to want to leave me alone, to enjoy the breeze as I read my book and have my coffee in peace”, probably the worst intro line in the whole universe. What was I even thinking? “Exactly! I mean they could just come over and say hi, expecting to be welcomed by the stranger they approach”, quirky and fast! I was too mesmerized by her voice as she replied.

The escape route seems clear. “maybe I should just tell the stranger to take a detour and pretend the whole embarrassing moment never happened”. Her next sentence made me forget escaping, “maybe the one reading the book should take a break and invite the stranger to take a seat, if every stranger takes a detour, all there will be in world is lonely, silo people”. She pulled out a bookmark and placed it within the pages, looked up and smile, with her hands signaled the chair across her.

“Name’s Nexus, else you’d have to refer me as stranger, forever”. “I’m Orion, and we’re officially no longer strangers, all mysteries solved”. Two hands moved forward and shook, her hand soft as silk, probably with delicate care. Worthy of attention, perfectly manicured nails painted in light hue of pink, matching the color of her lips, her lips that looked like petals of rose in the morning, where drops of dew find solace and comfort.

We spoke without realizing hours passing by, topics ranging from our work to our aspirations for life. “You know what? I am truly glad that you did not make a detour just now, else I won’t be laughing as much I did today, can’t believe that I am feeling lucky”, she said while looking into my eyes, as if to make a point that she really means it. “I know I have that clowny effect on people, and I don’t blame them, the world lacks quality of entertainment”. “You a clown? I don’t think of you that way, but I think of you as the person that resembles sunshine, no matter how sad you are, looking at sunrise makes you glow with the glorious ray it showers upon you… daily”, she said while moving few strands of her hair that was hindering her vision, tucked them neatly behind her ears that had the companion of chandelier earrings.

It started to rain slightly, probably a sign that we will have to continue our conversation on another day. “Would you mind if I call you tonight?”. “Tonight I will be slightly busy as I need to prepare a client brief, but if you’d love to, I’d like to take kidnap you for a day… tomorrow”, I said as she looked to be finding answers as to why will I not want to accept her call, answers triggered by questions such as “does he has a girlfriend?”, “is he going to be with somebody?”, “am I beginning to bore him?” “I am glad to be a willing captive”, she said, smiling while hiding her thoughts.

As she walked away, I just stood there looking at her, with every step she took, I was wishing that I could stop her for a few more minutes, just to let her know that I was truly glad to have known her. Most probably she is already aware of it, especially with the fact that she took few glances, turning and smiling.

Tomorrow, I will not rise to face the sunshine, coz I found you- a simple and sweet SMS that came to my inbox late at night as I lay on the bed to sleep, while thinking of her and recalling every bit of our encounter today… A Romantic Encounter!

Code of War

2008-04-09T11:26:00.000+08:00

When I extend a hand of friendship, it becomes momentous occasion and when I make an enemy, histories are created! Can’t believe how true this is for me. No one loves having enemies, but when I go to war, I ensure total annihilation to the enemy that calls upon the war itself.

When diplomacy doesn’t work, and circumstances triggers the alarm, I go to war with one objective and one objective only… TO WIN! Call me mean, evil, or any other words you might have, but hey, you either kill or be killed!

Carefully chart your plan and ensure victory. I am smiling today, seeing things working out the way I’d want it to be. Truly unbelievable the course of life, a person who thought that could damage me and hurt me, is at my mercy! The best part is that, through weird constellation of stars, this person has no clue what is about to hit and I could be the saviour.

In my hands, I have the ability to save or to destroy, the ability to give an opportunity or to pull it back, to influence a person’s decision in favor or against. What is my choice? To show mercy or to ensure destruction? I won’t be able to answer that; I choose not to answer that but instead, let’s just say, time will tell…

Rising Glorious

2008-04-09T11:20:00.000+08:00

For those who have read my earlier post titled 'Lifetime Decisions'... this is my sharing of the day! I am truly happy today, so happy that I feel I'm walking among the stars.

It might not be a big deal for you, but for me, this is the beginning to rising glorious, to rise for the moment that I am created for! The Khan is finally back.

It all started last Friday as I was leaving office, the person on the other line said, 'Firdaus, I am with your good friend Zach and we were just talking about you, say what you doing on Monday at 3PM?' I took a quick glance on my digital diary and said 'I am free, even if not free for you I will make my time available for you'.

'I am being conferred the Honorary Counsel for Pakistan and I would like you to attend the ceremony'. Those were the lines that just made me realise that this is my first opportunity after so long to see if I have what it takes, I knew I did, but just for the sake of being in the scene would make a whole lot difference.

This morning, I took out my 'batik' shirt which hasn't been worn for a long long time, put it on and left home. Was tired of hearing being called Dato' Seri throughout the day, but felt good knowing I still carry the look of the man full of confidence.

As I stepped into the ever so familiar ballroom of Traders Hotel, the feeling was certainly great when I was greeted full of respect and when I looked at the table I was to join, I realised that I was the only one not carrying a royal title, well that was for a start!

At my table, sat the French Counsel, Thailand Counsel, South African Counsel among the other dignitaries, when I looked around the table, I realised I was certainly the youngest but heck, even in the whole ballroom, I was the youngest!!!

'It's Showtime'... that was what I said to myself and I knew it was now or never, you either make your presence felt or be the tiny micro creature. What I spoke would be my trade secret but to let you in on a small secret, no matter how grand a lady is, chivalry is always appreciated by her, praises that are honest reflects in your eyes and this women were my audience! I mean how often do you meet ladies that carries the title 'Madame' officially? I had this smile flashing as I realised that I was talking and THEY were listening! Later on, the men joined in and of all tables, ours was the one that was the liveliest.

The rest is history, some of them could not believe my age, and some refused to accept the age I was telling them, all those words that were once familiar were coming back one by one.

At which moment, I realised that it was always within me, that I am not just merely a person that roams the surface of earth, but the guy destined for far more greater things. No no, don't get me wrong, it's not like I am one level below God. It's just that I have lost myself for some time and having it back again, feels totally great and exhilirating.

Congratulations Dato' Rafique Karim on being conferred the Honorary Counsel of Pakistan in Penang and thank you, thank you very much for a great day, the day of 'Rising Glorious'...

Love? A fragment of my imagination!

2008-04-09T11:05:00.000+08:00

It’s funny how things usually turn up in a relationship. You could wake up one morning fully charged to face the day, put on your power suit and say this day is mine. You feel energetic and on top of the world. Out of nowhere in your day’s rush, you see her passing by, someone that is truly captivating and you say to yourself, ‘this lady is a dream come true’… you get the drift, so no point telling you the rest.

This , my friend, is the reality, boy meets gal, falls in love and loses himself completely. I just never seem to get it from my friends when they tell me of how they have this encounter. Because they all come back to me whether in months, or years , sobbing and whining on why they were hurt!

Times have certainly changed, lift up your hands up if you recently heard of a guy breaking up with a gal? what? No hands! One at least… Nope, damn I hate it when I am right… This is the reality now, it’s the ladies who calls the shots, gone are the times when men ruled, the queen has taken over!

Forget about words like loyalty, words such as devotion, they simply don’t hold any meaning anymore. Why do I say love is a fragment of my imagination? It has always been for me cause I never understood it from the beginning, had my fair share of experience and even till now, I sit down at 2AM wondering what exactly love is? Enlighten me if you can, I am dead curious!

A friend of mine just faced this recently, there he was in the perfect bollywood love story, complete with hit songs and moments that brings tears to his eyes, tears cause the moments are now gone, just one day he wakes up and realizes that they were all a fantasy, a fantasy that was never meant to be a reality! Bummer, must’ve been tough, but who is to blame? I don’t blame the gal at all, it was he who refused to accept reality first of all…

In the 3 years that he was with the gal, the gal was his devotion, day and night it was her he thought off, friends were neglected (and he got the nerve to come see me now?), family was secondary, career was ok (phew) and changes upon changes he brought to himself. Today, he was sobbing and crying telling me the sad sad story. I feel sorry? Nope, I smacked his head and said ‘dude, this was inevitable, you were in dreamland, welcome to reality!’

The part I hate the most bout break –ups is that they hurt real bad, piercing sensation, pain from deep within the heart, trust me I know, I loved too, not that stone-hearted here. But live has it’s ups and downs, and one thing about break-ups for both guys and gals, words that follows after are simply ass-wipes and loads of crap! Do not ever fall for that, that the person really does care, they don’t! They didn’t the moment they decided to move on in life, if they cared, would they call it off? Think bout it you genius!

When you do the mistake of thinking words like, ‘I will always be there for you’, ‘just call out for me and I will be there for you’, ‘I want us to remain as we were’, ‘you mean the world to me’, ‘I love you still’ etc etc does actually hold any meaning after words like ‘we can’t be together’, ‘I don’t think this relationship will work out’, ‘we can’t do this anymore’ were uttered, you are the second greatest idiot in world after world’s greatest idiot.

Because you would be hoping this words came from the heart that once loved you when it didn’t. it came from a guy or a gal that once LOVED you, and still in the sense of humanity and slight care, doesn’t want to leave you stranded like a yacht without fuel, or in poetic words, a kite without it’s string. The guy or gal is just caring for the great moments you shared, not to be there for you in life! Get that nailed right down your skull to your brain, if it doesn’t, then I am so sorry for you…

Be prepared to face slow rejection, lesser phone calls, lesser concerns, a person that once stayed up talking to you all night is suddenly telling ‘BRB’ (Be Right Back) and never returns, the same person that when once upon a time, knew that you would be waiting and would text you like 5 times telling he/she is stuck with something and sorry to keep you waiting, now just don’t seem to find their mobile in the vicinity! The person who was dying to meet you everyday, wouldn’t ‘mind’ meeting up and the classic line, ‘I’ve been so busy’

This will come with arguments because you took the words seriously and thought they would be all the same when they did not ever intend to, you would face the day crawling and dejected, like a person stuck in a dessert and seeing phatamorganic illusions. While the party that just wanted to dump you and move on, is also feeling-

(make your pick)
A- sad cause they made you this way
B- lost without your presence in their life
C- hurt because you have changed from jovial and upbeat to a sad wreck
D- annoyed because you are just… well, annoying!

If you answered anything other than D, stop reading this, go pick a glass of water, cover your mouth and dip your nose, drown and die cause there is no helping you. Don’t jump into the sea and bother your parents and trouble the rescuers. I am harsh? Well maybe being harsh would give you a slightly clearer perspective.

So save the emotional stress and sad feelings for moments that are truly worth it, don’t cry for losing the person, but rejoice in the moments you once shared, let it be a nice ending and don’t keep your hopes on anyone that you are not obliged to, vice versa.

Be glad nevertheless that there is someone out there (applicable if you ever dare love again), who would want to be with you fully, with the commitments and devotions as much as you love, love that person who truly deserves it, a point above and kudos for that soul who decides to be with you, the one who accepts you and does not brings tears to your eyes, for there is one person who left you and there is one person here who wants to build their life with you, he/she is the one that you should feel your heart beating for.

As for your previous partner, be glad it was over before it became a torment in future. If they didn’t want it today, chances are they wouldn’t want it in future too. Be friends if you ever could and if that is not feasible, it is time you let the good memories prevail and start thinking for yourself, for once. Make decisions based on what your brain tells you, be practical and logical, leave the dreamland and welcome to reality!